I need help


I need help

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    November 21, 2015 at 4:59 am #88846
    I need help

    So there’s this girl that I met at a feast and got her number I really like her and we were talking for a good month and we would have really good convos whith som flirting and she opened up to me about her ex and everything and it was going good then it started to die down till the point were I wouldn’t get a text back and we had a good thing going and to add on she said she doesn’t want a relationship whem we were first talking and I would always try to make plans but she wouldn’t reply when I would ask what are you doing today knowing that I was trying to take her out and when it was hard to get to reply i went all out told her how I felt and she liked it but then she brought up how she don’t want a relationship and then things just died down again and it’s Ben almost 3 months since I’ve talked to her i got over her but I started to have feeling s for her and I really want to try to talk again but I don’t know what to do any advice

    November 24, 2015 at 8:47 am #88904

    its difficult because she did say she didn’t want a relationship.
    you can always send a short text ‘thinking of you’… see if she responds. If you get some feedback and start talking, ask her out for a coffee, something simple and see if there is anything there.
    If not, you tried and you know that she just isn’t ready for a relationship right now.

    November 27, 2015 at 2:02 am #89043

    Plus, If she says shes still not ready for a relationship. You can always become close friends and possibly try again

    November 27, 2015 at 2:22 pm #89053

    I can tell you really love her from the bottom of your heart. Maybe she is afraid to get into a relationship with you because of her bad experience with the ex. She may be afraid to be emotionally vulnerable and be reluctant to let you into her heart. She may like you back, but is scared that if things work out between you two, that it will repeat the same cycle of her and her ex. Keep trying but if she doesn’t make an effort simply move on to better things. All the best!