I Need Major Help, THE EX! Please Comment and Read

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I Need Major Help, THE EX! Please Comment and Read

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    LostinLove007
    LostinLove007
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    June 5, 2018 at 8:21 pm #176323
    I Need Major Help, THE EX! Please Comment and Read

    So my Ex and I broke up in 2016. He Broke Up With Me. Long story short, I live with my mom and I have strict rules and we really couldn’t date he didn’t want me to get in trouble. We had been dating 2 years, we made it work. (Cried got over It) We were the best friend couple more than boyfriend and girlfriend we were good friends. So we started talking a few weeks ago and its like we haven’t lost communication we laugh, we talk, and straight chill. Only thing is one time we were having a rough patch in our relationship and he had phone sex with his ex, I was angry and I forgave him. However, should we reconnect. I am confused. Talking to him again its like I kept a place in my heart for him. Should I throw those feelings out.

    We have been talking over a month and he said he still feels love for me

    Rjace
    Rjace
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    June 7, 2018 at 7:09 am #176425

    So as i can see from reading your message. You both still have something for each other. So theres nothing stopping you getting together. However as all couples have problems etc restarting the relationship where you lefted off. That will also mean the past carries on. So if you really like this guy start a new fresh relationship with him from a blank page and forget the past and enjoy the future.

    dashingscorpio
    dashingscorpio
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    July 6, 2018 at 8:59 am #178695

    “He Broke Up With Me. Long story short, I live with my mom and I have strict rules
    and we really couldn’t date he didn’t want me to get in trouble.”

    “However, should we reconnect. I am confused.”

    Hello Confused,

    There are only a couple valid reasons for getting back with an ex.
    1. You/Them has changed dramatically
    2. Circumstances have changed dramatically.

    Unless you’re no longer living with your mom the same issues will arise again.
    Without (changes) it’s like going to see the same movie and expecting a different ending.
    You didn’t mention your age but until you get your own place or a place with roommates it makes no sense to reunite.
    Your mother isn’t going to “change” and whatever caused him to breakup with you is tied to her.