I Need Major Help, THE EX! Please Comment and Read

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I Need Major Help, THE EX! Please Comment and Read

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    LostinLove007
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    June 5, 2018 at 8:22 pm #176324
    I Need Major Help, THE EX! Please Comment and Read

    So my Ex and I broke up in 2016. He Broke Up With Me. Long story short, I live with my mom and I have strict rules and we really couldn’t date he didn’t want me to get in trouble. We had been dating 2 years, we made it work. (Cried got over It) We were the best friend couple more than boyfriend and girlfriend we were good friends. So we started talking a few weeks ago and its like we haven’t lost communication we laugh, we talk, and straight chill. Only thing is one time we were having a rough patch in our relationship and he had phone sex with his ex, I was angry and I forgave him. However, should we reconnect. I am confused. Talking to him again its like I kept a place in my heart for him. Should I throw those feelings out.

    We have been talking over a month and he said he still feels love for me…

    jjcc
    jjcc
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    June 6, 2018 at 2:56 am #176325

    I am in a similar position. You never know if the ex would be back. You dont know if she would do it again or not. If she says he stills for you, give it a chance, but consider an exit plan because it might happen again.

    dashingscorpio
    dashingscorpio
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    June 16, 2018 at 3:07 pm #177224

    “He Broke Up With Me. Long story short, I live with my mom and I have strict rules and we really couldn’t date he didn’t want me to get in trouble.”
    The question is: What has changed???

    If you’re still living with your mom then whatever led to your breakup is still there.
    There are only two reasons for legitimately getting back with an ex.

    1. One or both of you has evolved or changed dramatically from when you were last together.

    2. Circumstances which caused the breakup have changed.

    From what you’ve written you still live with your mom so the “strict rules” are likely still in play.
    They say insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting a different result.
    Until you move out you’re going to be facing the same problem.