I need some advices

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I need some advices

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    dzonibravo
    dzonibravo
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    June 6, 2019 at 2:51 am #201654
    I need some advices

    So this is the thing.I fell in love in one girl in my town but we don’t know each other that much.We chatted on instagram cause we have same interests like playing music and playing the same sport but that conversations were not much big.I see her everyday in town but everytime i see her she is farther away and i can’t even tell hello.She had something like graduating celebration and me and other friends was there too to shoot some pictures with our other friends.I saw her and somehow collect strenght to approach her.I said Hello i am Josh for example,we chatted on instagram how are you and she said yeah i know you and i asked her for picture and friends pictures us.Later that day i send her picture of us and i said that she is soooooo cute and she responds with blushing smily face.

    dzonibravo
    dzonibravo
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    June 6, 2019 at 2:51 am #201655

    I even asked her that we can go someday in a park cause she told me that she plays guitar and i play percussions that we can go in a park and play some music if she wants and she responds with ahahah that souns cooool.So the problem is when i text her maybe i am wrong but it seems to me like she is not interested but i don’t know,when i asked or tells something about music and stuff that both of us are interested she responds with pretty much big messagges but when it’s something normal like school or how’s your day going it’s like she is not interested.When we met the first time on that graduating celebration she was smilling and all was good and normal but i don’t know if she is interested or no.She started high school and i am second grade of high school

    forummer
    forummer
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    June 6, 2019 at 7:52 am #201656

    From what you mentioned, the signals she is sending is that she just wants to be friends and is not interested in anything romantic.

    dashingscorpio
    dashingscorpio
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    June 6, 2019 at 10:18 am #201664

    “I fell in love in one girl in my town but {we don’t know each other} that much.”
    Anyone who is “in love” with someone they don’t know is mistaking (infatuation) for love!

    As far as the texts are concerned stick with the topics she IS interested in.
    Schedule the park day in the near future and talk with her more than you text.
    In order to get to know someone you have to spend time WITH them.

    By being around her a little more you should be able to tell if she wants to date you.
    Odds are if she never initiates contact with you or doesn’t flirt with you the answer is no.

    You’re the older person so you should come off as being confident and assured of yourself.
    Being the awkwardly “nice guy” or putting a girl on a pedestal can seem lame or creepy to some young girls.
    In the meantime you should keep your options open by pursuing other girls.
    Go where you’re celebrated and not tolerated!

    “Never love anyone who treats you like you’re ordinary.” – Oscar Wilde

    surutka1
    surutka1
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    June 8, 2019 at 9:17 am #201725

    Maybe she just want to bre friends

    Luca Srzinski
    Luca Srzinski
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    July 2, 2019 at 4:36 pm #203199

    yeah maybe she just want to be friends

    umseosadib
    umseosadib
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    August 11, 2019 at 3:59 am #205187

    i think same