I really like this guy but..

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I really like this guy but..

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    Melanie B
    Melanie B
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    December 13, 2017 at 9:48 am #159942
    I really like this guy but..

    I offered fwb to my guy friend. We had done it in the past randomly. I’m not ready to date anyone as I’m coming out of a long term relationship. So we hooked up again and the sex was fun. After he was really warm and affectionate. I really like this guy but I feel like he doesn’t care about me. So fast forward days later and he hasn’t made any effort to make contact with me. I texted him once after a week just to say hi but will not message again. If he cared for me he would have made an effort to contact me already. I just don’t know why I’m unable to get his attention. I guess we can’t help who is attracted to you and who is not. I just don’t get it, it’s hard to accept someone doesn’t like me.

    smith1986
    smith1986
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    December 14, 2017 at 11:39 am #160081

    Hi, I’m still new here but for my own understanding, it’s not really good to date a guy after you had sex. Some guys just want sex then after he tasted and has sex with you he will be gone. I’m not saying it’s really fact but In most cases this is true! except you find each other attractive or there is a spark within you.

    Sweettart3
    Sweettart3
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    December 17, 2017 at 10:33 pm #160294

    Girl, let him loose. The way I see it is if a man was interested in me, he would make the effort to let me know! No effort on his part seems to be made here. And maybe the sex did ruin anything other than fwb. But once you are fwb, dating or a relationship just does not work out. That is my opinion.