I think he likes me but, he wont date me in fear of his reputation with me

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I think he likes me but, he wont date me in fear of his reputation with me

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    Louisa76
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    May 23, 2018 at 3:16 am #174975
    I think he likes me but, he wont date me in fear of his reputation with me

    Hi Everyone,
    I know this man who, is really nice we talk almost everyday and I know he cares about me. I recently fell into some trouble which led me in court for a crime I didn’t commit which is still in court. I reported someone for something, I believe they set out to discredit my name that, is the real nutshell. I also, have a disability that, can impact my cognitive function not badly just sometimes in my speech. I am a professional in healthcare at a post graduate level and he is a professional also I think because of his profession being in the legal area he doesn’t really want to date me. I have a good intuition and I think he likes me but, he just wont say so. we chat for long periods on the phone and we get along really well, when asked about him liking me, he makes up excuses like, he just isnt’ ready. He is in his fifties and I am in forties. He has never being married before, I have and I am now divorced. I really like him but, he wont admit it if he likes me. ???

    singlemom18
    singlemom18
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    May 23, 2018 at 2:32 pm #175051

    Keep talking to him, take each day at a time and see where this goes – live in the moment as they say. It will give you both time to see if you want anything more or not. If not you may just have a great friend for life.

    the_gangsta
    the_gangsta
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    May 23, 2018 at 8:24 pm #175089

    I agree with singlemom18, though maybe the “he isn’t ready” might not be an excuse depending on what his situation is. Have you asked him about his dating background?? Maybe pry into that a little bit, although not too much. Either he’s really not ready for one with you or he just doesn’t want one but is being nice. But yea I would suggest to keep talking to him and maybe be his friend first and see where that goes, good luck!!