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Lindsay7894ParticipantSeptember 12, 2017 at 9:44 am #148777
I matched with this guy on Bumble back in early July. We exchanged numbers and for a few weeks we were so into eachother, talking everyday, facetiming and snapchatting. It wasn’t until we tried to set up our first date that things went wrong. We set up this date three times and every time he would make up an excuse as to why it didn’t happen. After the third and final time he stopped talking to me for 3 weeks. At that point I was over him and was looking for someone else, when he comes back out of the blue saying “Hey, hope all is well with you”. I confronted him and was honest with how I felt. That he hurt me, he knew I liked him a lot, and it wasn’t okay. He doesn’t really know what to say so he leaves for a week and comes back with the honest apology I was hoping for, so we’re now on good terms. Slowly getting back to where things were. We left our last conversation with him saying “you have a lot to offer”. So, what do I do? Confront him about where we stand?
bell282ParticipantSeptember 14, 2017 at 8:07 pm #149114
agree… something isn’t right with this guy… trust your gut,
wukarp90ParticipantSeptember 15, 2017 at 11:43 am #149161
He sounds flaky. I’d continue dating around and if you ever are able to meet, great. If not, at least you won’t be too hung up on him.
gre123ParticipantSeptember 16, 2017 at 12:38 am #149274
Any guy that is truly interested in you will not treat you like this. It’s suspicious and flakey behaviour. Don’t waste your time.
LS14ParticipantSeptember 17, 2017 at 5:40 pm #149290
I’m in a similar situation-he stopped talking after the date. I always give the advice that you have nothing to lose by texting/saying whatever is on your chest. You will know when it’s enough and have said it all without seeming too desperate.
Mk1204ParticipantSeptember 17, 2017 at 10:58 pm #149307
Personally, I’d move on! If he wanted something to come of it, then he’d make more of an effort!
AnonymousInactiveSeptember 19, 2017 at 5:18 am #149466
yes you have to even if its hurting you. life must go on!
Rnsc2ParticipantSeptember 19, 2017 at 12:47 pm #149511
Weird. It sounds like he talking to other people and when they don’t work out he goes back to you because your his safety blanket. Just my opinion.
friavidaParticipantSeptember 23, 2017 at 1:26 pm #150097
You just hurting yourself. Just let him go
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