I'm a dumbass, here's my story.


I'm a dumbass, here's my story.

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    August 2, 2019 at 4:54 pm #204775
    I'm a dumbass, here's my story.

    To be brief; we work together as event medics. Right away we’re attracted to each other. Been about a month. She’s 24, I’m 37. I ask her out, we have an awesome day on the paddle-wheel boat learning about the city and hanging out downtown. We go to a work fundraiser together, keeping it on the low from others, do some cleaning & construction, laughing and having fun. At the end I may have goofed, sarcastically saying “thx for wasting time with me”… her taking it like “wasting my time”… ugh. Anyway, she had been joking about it all day, me wasting my time. I should’ve spotting her lack of confidence instead of trying to be witty at the end. Told her I was just teasing but I think the damage was done.

    So, i left it be for the night, texted her today telling her how much I enjoyed our time together and to have a safe weekend at work.

    Anyway, if see me out there, shoot me… so stupid, ugh.