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yaokParticipantFebruary 21, 2013 at 9:05 am #23278
i know this is the male forum, but i wanted guy advice, too
he is a diagnosed bipolar sociopath
also seems to have grandiose delusions
claiming he’s reached nirvana and he’s a god
i claim weird things like this as a joke but he is serious
at first i kind of made fun of him and thought it was all silly
then he got mad and annoyed at me for doubting him
so i said i would take him seriously
we met through mutual friends and ended up making out at his birthday party
ever since then i can’t stop thinking about him
he knows i want him, but he says he’s uninterested in making new friends even
he doesn’t even want to see me
he says it has nothing to do with looks or personality
he literally was like “i’m a god and you aren’t”
and says we’re in different “realms”
and i told him i wasn’t going to give up because then i seem weak
and he was like “you are weak. you are human. with human desires, like the desire for me.”
i honestly don’t know if he is completely ****ing with me or not
but either way i want him
don’t call me stupid, i want who i want
but idk how to get him
i mean, i’ve considered completely being cold to him and ignoring him and maybe he will miss me
help meeeee i hate being rejected/losing/not getting what i want/etc
im a bit of a narcissist too
and if it helps he’s been with a lot of girls and claim girls go after him like i have all the time
and says it’s annoying
and he hates persistence and doubt
which are two of my main qualities so i honestly am so stuck
i want him not only because i like him but because its almost like a mission i just want to accomplish sigh
abbystheoneParticipantFebruary 21, 2013 at 10:17 pm #23475
I know I’m not a guy…but I couldn’t
Wow! I just read your dilemma! Honestly??? This guy is a bipolar-sociopath with grandiose delusions? Here’s the thing….relationships can be tricky under normal circumstances. Now you’ve thrown in some manic depression, no conscience, and a Narcissus.I think he might be a tad on mental overdrive. Okay so the guy’s a good kisser. You can find one of those anywhere! I think what’s really bothering you is that you want something you can’t have. Even if he was a “normal” guy there are still no guarantees. A mission to land someone who claims he’s reached Nirvana and thinks he’s a god might not be the way to go….hey, but if you like a good challenge I wish you the best!
TheOtakuologistParticipantFebruary 21, 2013 at 10:22 pm #23476
Just a question, yaok:
How old are you?
KurtisParticipantFebruary 22, 2013 at 4:31 pm #23507
Doesn’t sound like anything natural will come out of this little game you’re playing with the poor fella.
DontbeniceanymoreParticipantMarch 26, 2015 at 10:09 pm #76179
I never understood why girls always want to save the life of someone who is completely mess up, you make it your mission and at the end you will end heart broken.
I wish you the best of luck, and hopefully staying away from this guy
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