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DrangoParticipantJanuary 27, 2014 at 12:33 am #46592
Wow I never thought this would happen. I pledged a fraternity Friday night and they brought us pledges to a strip club. Me and this one stripper got along really nice after talking and realizing we liked the same things, like Avenged Sevenfold as one example.
I’m 18 and she’s 27 and a single mother..I’m just your average dude. Never got in trouble, and am a Marine reservist. Yes. Marine.
No problems getting girls from my college, so no I’m not desperate. I just think it’ll be a fun experience. What do y’all think about this?
ardorformusicParticipantJanuary 27, 2014 at 1:45 am #46599
Just ask her out and see what she says. No harm in it.
DrangoParticipantJanuary 27, 2014 at 2:14 am #46602
Already did actually haha. This Thursday. I don’t know, I might just be overthinking this. I know that it’s not going to be long term at all. The “stripper” part isn’t what’s making me nervous. It’s the “27 and a mom” part. Am I a bad person for doing this? I’m actually a classy guy, and didn’t even plan on going to a strip joint til last Friday. Even then I didn’t know I was going until I got there.
AbbaDabbaDewParticipantJanuary 27, 2014 at 3:50 pm #46655
I’d say have fun.
You may not think it’s long term but what’s your take thus far on her expectations?
btw – I’m jealous.
Walter1982ParticipantFebruary 3, 2014 at 8:54 pm #47132
I see no harm in this at all. It’s different and something new, go for it and have a good time.
heytonimaeParticipantFebruary 6, 2014 at 12:44 pm #47344
If you get along with her and there’s a connection, there shouldn’t be a porblem. If you’re really worried, just bring it up. Ask her how she feels about the age difference. Tell it’s a situation you’ve never been in before and you’re curious how she feels.
newbie123ParticipantFebruary 7, 2014 at 10:28 pm #47443
I’d go for it
TopperParticipantFebruary 9, 2014 at 2:18 am #47456
Like others said, just go and have fun. Doesn’t have to be serious. If you don’t feel a strong connection, you can leave it at one date.
judd1980ParticipantFebruary 11, 2014 at 2:12 am #47554
I dated a stripper once and hung out with several of her stripper friends, very fun group of people. But I am sorry to say that 99% of women who become strippers do so because they have serious issues or a traumatic childhood! not to mention that they tend to be heavy drug and alcohol users , so there is way to much baggage to deal with. And your schedules will rarely match up. That being said I would tell you not to waste your time, it isn’t worth the inevitable drama.
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