I'm stuck

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I'm stuck

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    Starfish243
    Starfish243
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    October 1, 2019 at 8:26 pm #215576
    I'm stuck

    I’ve been dating this girl for almost a year. im a senior in high school and she is a sophomore. She is my first girlfriend. Now that i am actually starting to think I’m realizing that she is very weird and just not for me. I’m already good friends with her family and I even work for her dad on his farm. what do I do?

    Henious88
    Henious88
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    October 2, 2019 at 12:28 pm #221270

    This totally depends on you. You should decide in which way will you go? All the best!

    BWKeegan
    BWKeegan
    Participant
    December 19, 2019 at 10:42 pm #226819

    Sounds like you’re attempting to avoid conflict. Nothing wrong with that. Conflict kinda sucks.

    If I were you, I’d talk to her dad man-to-man. Something along the general lines of “hey, I’ve been dating your daughter a while now, but (tactfully explain reason for not liking her anymore). However, I still like your family and want to remain close. I don’t want to hurt her feelings, but I don’t want to date her anymore. I hope I’m not creating any hard feelings (or whatever).”

    dashingscorpio
    dashingscorpio
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    December 20, 2019 at 12:33 am #226826

    No one is “stuck” with anyone! Suffering is optional.
    You get to (choose) who you will spend your time with.

    You’re only a teenager and odds are you can find another job even working fast food if you had to.
    Your (immature mind) has you convinced that “right now” is all there will ever be.
    Very few people’s “first love” ends up being their “last love” or “soulmate”.
    Eventually people breakup, go away to college, relocate to other towns, date other people and life goes on.

    You’re making this a big deal for no reason and you’ll see that for yourself in a few short years.
    The truth of the matter is your high school years are just a blip on the screen compared to your adult years.
    When you’re in your 20s, 30s, and beyond you’ll look back on this time and see just how silly it was to be “this serious”.

    BWKeegan
    BWKeegan
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    December 20, 2019 at 8:17 am #226830

    Pio, you give really bad advice. Mostly because you make random assumptions based on what you envision is going on with very limited information. Read and give feedback about what you read; not what you think is going on.