In a relationship…with a girl I don't like?!


In a relationship…with a girl I don't like?!

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    December 22, 2013 at 1:36 pm #45143
    In a relationship…with a girl I don't like?!

    Long story short:

    I am in my first relationship, I’m 20. I was interested in this girl although I never got those love butterflies I usually get with a crush or anything – just a bit nervous sometimes, she is pretty and has a good personality. We eventually become “official” and she really likes me. Thing is, I feel like I’m slowly starting to lose the interest I had in her already. I kind-of like her, I think about her sometimes, but nothing really too major.

    Not sure what to do or what to feel. It’s my first time in a relationship…ugh help!

    December 30, 2013 at 11:06 pm #45479

    Wow first time well that’s difficult. But if you truly don’t like her then break up with her. Don’t lead her on cause that’s worse then breaking up with then when you start to not feel anything.

    December 31, 2013 at 6:31 pm #45484

    Sounds like there’s someone else. Maybe at the time he had a temporary breakup with this gf, and then got back together.

    January 1, 2014 at 2:16 pm #45495

    You should really just break it off. It is worse in the long run really.

    January 3, 2014 at 6:22 pm #45787

    The best would be to not mislead her.

    January 6, 2014 at 3:07 am #45841

    listen; dont do anyhting trastic. this happen to me: just give yourself sometime away from her and see how things go,
    ex: you hang out five times a week cut it down to three times a week.
    let me know

    January 7, 2014 at 3:12 pm #45857

    Definitely do not lead her on.

    January 7, 2014 at 5:18 pm #45860

    If ur not sure of ur feelings for her, you should let her go. Try speaking with her about this, maybe it’s something that’s just bothering u and the two of you can work it out.

    January 8, 2014 at 10:19 pm #45881

    Yes it happens to me too a lot of times.
    From experience, if you start losing interest early on, you won’t gain it back by sticking with her.
    She’s just not for you. She can’t keep your interest and its fine. YOu can’t control your feelings. YOu either feel it or you dont.
    In this case you dont feel it anymore so for her sake you should let her go before she likes you more.
    Its always fun in the beginning, but once the thrill of the chase is over, so is the interest in them

    January 12, 2014 at 7:06 am #45919
    Reply To: In a relationship…with a girl I don't like?!

    yes don’t lead her on

    April 7, 2014 at 6:34 pm #45502

    happy new year 2014.enjoy your days
    and just do really get out of it.. its like someone else is waiting for you