Is He Interested? Post-First Date Anxiety.


Is He Interested? Post-First Date Anxiety.

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    August 25, 2015 at 6:35 pm #84767
    Is He Interested? Post-First Date Anxiety.

    I went on a date with a guy from Tinder a few days ago and it went amazing. For the first time in a while, I thought “hey I can actually see myself falling for this person.” I played it cool and let him text me first afterward. Our last text convo was awkward. He told me we should have a sleepover. I am not an expert but I know this is not an invitation for a romantic 2nd date. It’s lazy and it’s pretend intimacy. I was offended because I really like him and want to get to know him in a more conventional setting. I responded by saying I am not that kind of guy. He said he didn’t mean we would have sex, yet I am unconvinced. I think that since he lives an hour away in a big city I am afraid he is a player. I’m not the type to invite sex into the equation until the 2nd quarter, ya feel?

    Anyways, any comments/advice? Am I lame? Am I crazy? Probably, but I appreciate your response!

    September 15, 2015 at 1:54 am #85440

    Well the romance and sex is probably a big part of why he wants you to sleep over but you can learn a lot from someone by talking with them in bed

    September 16, 2015 at 8:42 pm #85508

    I don’t really think it’s a good sign if he is so direct about these type of things. Unfortunately, Tinder is 95% sex 5% relationship. except the 95% are smart enough to take different routes to get to their goals…. wait for him to initiate a normal date, and then do whatever you want. be in control, that’s what men really want.

    September 18, 2015 at 7:13 pm #85601

    I agree.

    October 11, 2015 at 8:37 pm #86778

    I’m having similar problems just now. Sounds like he might be a player