Is he just stating a fact or wants me to tell him to stay?

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Is he just stating a fact or wants me to tell him to stay?

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    Anonymous
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    March 19, 2020 at 3:55 pm #231797
    Is he just stating a fact or wants me to tell him to stay?

    I’m a 34-year-old woman into this 31-year-old guy I have been walking and talking with.

    Occasion 1
    – We bumped into each other talked a minute and then started walking in the morning time, the convo was going well. I had mentioned there was a festival and he was like oh man I have plans. I am going out clubbing with a friend for her 21 birthday. I really don’t want to go though…he talks a few mins about the clubbing and then we go on to a different topic. We said our good byes and hugged.

    Occasion 2
    I join him again while he walks his dog when our schedules align. The conversation is going better this time and I feel there is a bit more of a connection between us. He states to me: I am leaving on Thursday and going to GA. I asked some questions and he said he was needing to help a buddy out. I really don’t want to go though…he said he would pay me to help. I will be back on Sunday night.

    Is he just stating a fact or he wanted me to say then don’t go and let’s hang out?

    dashingscorpio
    dashingscorpio
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    March 19, 2020 at 11:29 pm #231802

    Whenever you have to “figure out” if someone is (into you) it usually means they’re not.
    This especially true of people in their 30s. It would be different if you guys were in your early teens.

    “Is he just stating a fact or he wanted me to say then don’t go and let’s hang out?”
    In order to transition from “hanging out” to {dating} someone has to actually ask the other one out on a date!

    “Hanging out” with someone usually leads to entering into the “friend zone”.