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Artemisia

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August 17, 2017 at 2:54 pm #145908

Is he trying to get rid of me?

I met this guy I really hit it off with. I just met him out of the blue, in a bookstore. We got talking and we ended up talking for hours right there and then. He cajoled me into going out for a coffee with him. It was amazing. He asked for my number, we texted back and forth, and he asked me to let him know when I’m next free. I told him Saturday. He texted back immediately “that should be great. What sort of time do you have in mind?” I replied that I’m free on that day from 2pm. That was Tuesday. Since then he’s not been in touch.

Is he just pretending to be interested in me? (I’m kinda insecure).

ladygirl

Participant

August 17, 2017 at 4:48 pm #145949

Maybe he has been busy!

fayew

Participant

August 18, 2017 at 6:50 am #145984

I think…it is better to stop waiting.

Anonymous

Inactive

August 18, 2017 at 8:59 pm #146138

Maybe he has been busy!

taylorb111

Participant

August 23, 2017 at 12:51 pm #146652

I would think he’s probably just busy.. I wouldn’t reach out again and just see if he gets back to you. He sounded like he was interested before all of this.

badlucklove

Participant

August 23, 2017 at 2:14 pm #146670

If he wants to talk he will contact you, no response is sometimes an answer. 🙁 best of luck

Forumgirl91

Participant

August 26, 2017 at 4:23 am #147120

look, no offense but you came across a bit too excited for a stranger…maybe he lost interest, but he may still come around…

Morninghugs

Participant

August 28, 2017 at 9:56 am #147137

hi…he seemed very interested in you and you gave him no reason to ignore you…I say text him again and ask him if he is ok….he could be very sick, maybe even in the hospital…there could have been a family emergency…there are a number of reasons he seems to have dropped off the face of the earth….but…you need to text him and ask him if he is ok first…

zoniet

Participant

August 30, 2017 at 11:52 am #147571

yea he seems busy!

Jed

Participant

August 31, 2017 at 4:15 am #147706

Reply To: Is he trying to get rid of me?

Maybe he is a bit scared, or might have another girl on the side.

Richy Rich

Participant

August 31, 2017 at 7:31 am #147708

Reply To: Is he trying to get rid of me?

Artemisia wrote:

I met this guy I really hit it off with. I just met him out of the blue, in a bookstore. We got talking and we ended up talking for hours right there and then. He cajoled me into going out for a coffee with him. It was amazing. He asked for my number, we texted back and forth, and he asked me to let him know when I’m next free. I told him Saturday. He texted back immediately “that should be great. What sort of time do you have in mind?” I replied that I’m free on that day from 2pm. That was Tuesday. Since then he’s not been in touch.

Is he just pretending to be interested in me? (I’m kinda insecure).

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Hmmm…strange one. If you meet any guys in the meantime you like, go out with them. Don’t hang around for this dude.