Is he trying to tell me something?

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Is he trying to tell me something?

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    misunderstoood
    misunderstoood
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    August 10, 2018 at 11:52 am #181316
    Is he trying to tell me something?

    I design graphics for a popular free to play online game. I decided to start and account and joined a team.

    I met a guy on the team who seemed to be really nice and his conversation was clean and acceptable. Since then, we have been chatting and have become close within the past 4-1/2 months.
    As one of the Officers on the team, I invited 2-3 friends that I knew; and, he added them to his contacts. One of my friends — who is female — eventually started liking him. When I found out, I decided not to be her friend anymore because of the negative things she had said and the way she said it. I told him about it. He knew how I felt but continued to be her friend. He said he would not invite me to game with him if she was in the room and vice versa. We were getting along fine. After about month, I find he had invited her. They both quit and made their own team. He say it means nothing. If nothing, then why would he leave and join her? Shall I forget about this guy?

    k
    k
    Participant
    August 10, 2018 at 11:58 am #181317

    I would forget about this guy. He doesn’t sound as if he is being honest with you, and do you really want that? You deserve better.

    dashingscorpio
    dashingscorpio
    Participant
    August 11, 2018 at 1:54 pm #181387

    You and him were just “platonic friends” and he clearly {romantically interested} in the other woman.
    When people are forced to choose between maintaining a “platonic friendship” or being with a “red hot lover” the lover will win!

    Life in the “friend zone” can be a painful existence. Suffering is optional.
    If you are romantically interested in a guy who clearly has no romantic interest in you it’s best for you to move on.

    “Never love anyone who treats you like you’re ordinary.” – Oscar Wilde

    MysteryZee
    MysteryZee
    Participant
    August 11, 2018 at 4:13 pm #181400

    You weren’t dating this guy, you gave no real signs that you wanted to date him so he went and found his own date.
    This is 2018 women demand equality and that means you can ask for a date yourself, man up

    jrnunez2
    jrnunez2
    Participant
    August 11, 2018 at 5:55 pm #181406

    yeah forget him he wouldn’t have left if he was into you…move on

    StevenH29
    StevenH29
    Participant
    August 12, 2018 at 3:38 pm #181411

    Just move on, I wouldn’t deal with that.

    Kat67
    Kat67
    Participant
    August 17, 2018 at 2:47 pm #181847

    That wasn’t very fair and nice of him to exclude you out like that. I would move on though. You deserve better. Find someone who would be afraid of losing you no matter what happens.