Is it a date?


Is it a date?

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    April 13, 2016 at 1:41 am #97652
    Is it a date?

    EC: I didn’t know you were in the army. My dad was too! Your husband was seriously a stupid idiot for doing that to you. He mentioned if I am anywhere alone in his area, to just message him and he will be there.
    I got up the courage to walk over to the bankers desk in which I sent him to for some financial consulting, and bluntly asked if he wanted to grab lunch on Thursday since his shirt should be here by then.
    He said yes.
    That following night I said this to him on Twitter:
    Me: I hope this morning I wasn’t too forward. That isn’t common for me.
    EC: Good morning ! Forward ? For wanting to grab a snack at lunch ? Doesn’t seem weird. Getting to know new people and such is always fun!

    Is it a date? or just a casual lunch with a friend? My co-workers say he is gay because he is nice, can cook, has amazing hair, works out, owns a gym, plays chess, and never mentions dating…ever.

    April 13, 2016 at 10:30 am #97668

    Sounds like he’s taken it in a causal sort of way!

    April 14, 2016 at 12:28 am #97733

    Me: You are just a very interesting person. I mean, your a body builder AND you play chess? How awesome is that. Not to mention you like to cook? Really? Please don’t say you are a vegan too. (a vegan and can cook is impossible)
    EC: Lol it really throws people off “chess and weight lifter / bodybuilding lol
    ME: Kind of threw me off. Haha.
    EC: Yes I like to cook . How else would one eat 🙂 ? Umm I was vegan … And fallow some of the ideas lol but it was more of a challenge then a permit life style. And vegans can cook. Just … Have to be creative 🙂
    ME: Haha. You were vegan? You literally checked off everything on my list of Impossible things for a man to do. How are you not married? Haha
    EC: Haha , well owning a business means =work a lot . Like I’m leaving work now . And headed home . But will be back at work at 0600. Not a normal day but a long one
    ME: My goodness. And you somehow have time to go to lunch with me on Thursday?
    EC: I’m also part wizard! I make time ?? haha

    April 14, 2016 at 9:03 am #97734

    ME: Haha. And here come the jokes! Lol. I’m glad you are “making time” for lunch. So you are a body builder, chess teacher, gym owner, Seattle lover, former vegan AND part wizard. Pretty epic! What’s the curve ball? Part wizard by day, ninja turtle by night?

    I really do not know how I should take this with him. EC is probably the most amazing man I have ever met. Being blunt, asking if this is a date is awkward since I asked him to lunch.

    April 26, 2016 at 11:06 am #98802

    sounds like a date…Go for it and good luck