Is it possible to turn this one night stand thing into something more?

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Is it possible to turn this one night stand thing into something more?

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    goosinator
    goosinator
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    May 5, 2020 at 9:25 pm #233383
    Is it possible to turn this one night stand thing into something more?

    I’ve known this guy for over a year, but we only ever hung out occasionally with mutual friends. We weren’t close, but we knew each other. He started texting me every now and then a few weeks ago. About 3 weeks ago he started sending booty call texts late at night. I played along, but never went to him. But I’ve been crushing on him for a long time now so the other night I initiated the booty call and ended up going to his place, and we had sex.
    He texted me once the next day, then again the following day. That’s when he told me he was thinking about the sex, so I told him I wanted to see him again, and he immediately backed off. Saying he was blacked out when it happened, quarantine isn’t a good time for hookups, he needs to work on his interpersonal shit, etc. Then he said he was going back to “full quarantine”

    Is there a chance that I can get him back in the mood to do it again? Maybe even do more? He’ll be drunk and horny again, and he might text me.
    What to do?

    dashingscorpio
    dashingscorpio
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    May 5, 2020 at 10:25 pm #233384

    ” I told him I wanted to see him again, and he immediately backed off.”

    Doesn’t sound like he wants anything more than the occasional “booty call”.
    Most guys are open to grabbing some “low hanging fruit” every now and then.

    However you need to be honest with yourself.
    It’s one thing if it’s just about sex for you and another thing if you’ve “been crushing on him for a long time..”

    My guess is if you move on and no bother contacting him he will at some point call you again for a hookup.
    The more you show a lack interest in getting with him the more he’ll probably feel challenged to get with you again.

    Note: If you’re (into someone) who is simply out to use your body eventually you’re going to end up hurt.
    Most women have plenty of options for getting laid. You don’t need someone who is going to play you for a fool.

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    May 7, 2020 at 1:32 pm #233470

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