is maybe a definite no

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is maybe a definite no

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  • Hayley Matthews Hayley Matthews
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    fallofduty
    fallofduty
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    May 28, 2019 at 1:23 am #201149
    is maybe a definite no

    hey guys, I had a questions I wanted to ask. so I work with this girl she asked me what my type is. I told her exactly how she is like. I asked her out later for a drink she said maybe. is that a definite NO and should I move on.

    Siegfied73
    Siegfied73
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    May 28, 2019 at 2:45 am #201150

    You work with her so you’ll see her again soon enough. Is she still friendly or does she back off?

    npeterson
    npeterson
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    May 28, 2019 at 10:14 pm #201244

    How long have you known her?

    Desgrasiado
    Desgrasiado
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    May 29, 2019 at 8:22 am #201252

    Is she flirty with you?

    dashingscorpio
    dashingscorpio
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    May 29, 2019 at 11:06 am #201289

    Lets just say I wouldn’t hold my breath.
    In the mean time pursue other women and live your life.
    Odds are she is NOT going to run up on you and ask when you want to have that drink.

    For all you know when she was asking about your type to play matchmaker for a friend.
    She may have a lonely girlfriend and thought you two might get along.
    However once you hit on (her) it caught her off guard.
    One thing is for sure (maybe) doesn’t mean yes!

    Another possibility is some women love a challenge.
    If that’s the case once she sees you’re not acting like you’re into her she’ll flirt with you.
    Just be nice, smile, laugh and only chat for a second or two and keep moving on.
    On some level this may make her want to prove to herself she get you back interested in her.
    I wouldn’t take the bait. She’d have to invite me out and if I didn’t have plans I might take her up on it.

    leofcb
    leofcb
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    June 1, 2019 at 4:33 am #201493

    Maybe is a hard No.

    If she wanted to or had any interest, she would say yes. Period.

    However, it doesn’t mean that the NO is forever.

    What she knows now is that you’re interested. It might take time for her to see you in that way. But, it might not ever happen. The point is, just keep dating and doing you. If she comes around later, cool. If not, cool too.

    mimoosu
    mimoosu
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    June 2, 2019 at 10:15 am #201510

    She might be playing hard to get.

    frankt
    frankt
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    June 8, 2019 at 2:37 am #201723

    Anything short of a straight out “yes” means that you should continue to pursue other people. I am strongly inclined to believe it means “no”

    Ask yourself this….Do you say “maybe” to people who you are interested in and want to get to know ?

    • This reply was modified 4 months, 2 weeks ago by frankt frankt.
    BRR
    BRR
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    June 10, 2019 at 3:44 pm #201807

    I would talk to her more. Try to get to know each other. Be patient and ask when she starts to show interest. I think, anyway… I don’t have a lot of experience, actually…