Is my client interested in me romantically or just being friendly?


Is my client interested in me romantically or just being friendly?

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    November 6, 2014 at 3:25 am #67101
    Is my client interested in me romantically or just being friendly?

    I have a new client in his late 20s, very handsome, successful, nice etc. He got out of a 3 year live-in relationship a month ago, then moved into his own bachelor pad I’m decorating for him now. Since our first meeting in person, he’s been texting, calling, & emailing me everyday to several times a day. It often involves the project, nothing urgent but small random stuff. He also sends me random articles I’d like, asking me about my day, sending me funny pictures, joking a lot and we have funny little exchanges. But again, we have a professional relationship, so there is no crossing that boundary at this moment.
    He hasn’t made any overtures or suggested we do anything outside of our working relationship. But I find it unusual he’s so friendly and contacts me so much since none of my other clients do.
    Is he interested? Just being a nice guy? Simply needs to be validated by female attention after his breakup? I’m a cute single girl, so why not?!

    • This topic was modified 3 years, 7 months ago by  bootyboot.
    November 7, 2014 at 6:27 pm #67223

    It was interesting reading your post 🙂

    It appears he may or may not be interested in you.

    Some guys are quite friendly and may even annoy you, while other might be dropping a hint. He seems to contact you pretty frequently, but even if he did like you, he is showing a little too much interest (in my opinion).

    It doesn’t sound like he is a shy person, right? So, if he likes you, he would probably be more likely to ask you for lunch or something.
    If he is shy, I’m not sure he would contact you so often.

    What is he like in person? Confident? Quiet?

    It’s hard providing advice when I don’t really know his personality.

    November 7, 2014 at 7:17 pm #67227

    Thanks for your response. He’s a pretty confident Alpha male, but not in a douchey way. He’s quite nice and friendly. But I’m sure even if he was interested, he has more sense than to ask me out while we have a working relationship.
    Why do you think he’s showing “too much interest”?