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is she interested?

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    confusedhurler
    confusedhurler
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    March 13, 2018 at 5:29 am #167281
    is she interested?

    About three months ago I went on a college night out and met up with a girl both of us were staying in the same house that night and we went back together and had sex. After sex we stayed up all night talking and stayed spooning and talking till the next afternoon when she had to go to college.
    she send me a snap that evening and we were still talking that was grand. then about a month later i asked her if she was going to this college night out and she said that she wasn’t but she wanted to meet up some time. at this stage we are still snapping and we have a gold heart. then another month later there was a big event on and i got tickets to go in but she didn’t get them. she had to go to the smaller night club.on that nigh i got kicked out of the big club and ended up in the small one. I told her about that the next day and she said i could have seen her. Now another month has passed and nothing has happened. I haven’t seen her in person since the first time.

    Gah117
    Gah117
    Participant
    March 28, 2018 at 4:40 pm #168850

    Something definitely burned out on her side. Maybe the idea of using snap was probably not a great idea since you should be talking to her in person for that time instead. Text her and being with her in person are 2 different things. Long distance relationship needs texting in order for it to work but if you see her in person already, you should of used texting as a way to set up a date. She may sound interested still but it’s dieing fast. I suggest to use texting from here on out to make dates rather than dating an iPhone screen. Why should get flirting in text while you can do it in person? Keep texting short like by maybe an hour or end off the conversation abruptly so that she wants more of you.

    sjack1023
    sjack1023
    Participant
    March 29, 2018 at 12:13 am #168874

    Either she lost the feelings (you thought) the two of you shared or she may have thought you lost interest due to lack of communication. I would say maybe text her again and maybe try to arrange something mid-convo.

    Dreamer86
    Dreamer86
    Participant
    March 30, 2018 at 4:13 pm #169210

    If she was interested she would have made a point to see you by now. Move on to someone else.

    gowiththeflow
    gowiththeflow
    Participant
    April 1, 2018 at 2:19 am #169242

    You should try and ask her on a real date, see what happens.