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slimslim25ParticipantSeptember 4, 2018 at 10:26 pm #183408
Hey Guys, so I recently started talking to this girl. Texting started off strong, went on a few dates that went super well (in my opinion). Instantly post any dates she would text me about how fun it was for her.
A week more rolls by and shes stopped texting as much, so i’m thinking ok…it’s over. THEN, I get nudes out of the blue. What the heck? Cool..whatever, I respond trying to spark conversation to possibly hang out again and I get left on read all over again. Even if i’m just a booty call, id love to pursue that lol
Do I ask her out, do I give up? Does she need space or is she just pissed i’m not initiating more?
overdriveParticipantSeptember 6, 2018 at 12:29 pm #183542
I would try one or two timeS to try and set something up And as long as your fine with a booty call I would say this behavior is OK too
But I wouldn’t put too much emphasis if she’s acting this way into building a strong bond and connection.
But then again I could be wrong and she might be busy so I would say try and reach out
If you can’t nail something down in the next two or three tries I would give up and move on to someone else
RaffyZalds36ParticipantSeptember 6, 2018 at 7:05 pm #183610
Don’t try to contact her again. She’s just a waiste of your time.
doublecreekfarm1918ParticipantSeptember 8, 2018 at 1:11 am #183757
She is obviously thinking about her. Could it possibly be she was drinking at the time this was sent? Maybe she realized the next day what she did and was embarrassed. If it was me, I’d ask the next day if she really wanted to send those photos…then maybe use a little humor and flattery,
dashingscorpioParticipantSeptember 9, 2018 at 12:24 am #183794
Stop texting and CALL her up!
If she answers ask her out if not ask her to give you a call.
Sounds like she’s playing games with you.
If she is unwilling to (talk) not text with you then move on.
Don’t be surprised if attempts to get your attention after you ignore her.
In the mean time go out with other girls.
Thankfully we live on a planet with over 7 billion other people!
emily44ParticipantSeptember 11, 2018 at 1:59 pm #184013
I honestly think she’s just looking for sex. She strikes up a few conversations with you, then she doesn’t text you often anymore, then proceeds to send you nudes instead. If this is the type of relationship that you want to have with her, then that’s cool. Although, I think a relationship were you could talk to a girl by texting/calling/hanging out with her in person would be a lot better. It would be where you’d be able to gain an emotional connection and not just an all physical one. You deserve better!
Cathy116ParticipantSeptember 12, 2018 at 5:51 pm #184154
You should really just call her or meet her in person and be honest on your feelings. But to be honest i do think shes only playing with your feels…
JohnnySevilleParticipantSeptember 12, 2018 at 10:38 pm #184158
I side with one of the other posters, she may have been drunk when she sent those and now realizes what she did and is really embarrassed. Calling her instead of texting would be the best way to find out what the deal is, did she really want you to get those pics or was she drunk. Its possible she also made a mistake and they should have gone to someone else, but doubtful she will admit to that. If she hesitates on the date then it might be best to walk away, you don’t want to make a pest of yourself or show you are desperate for a date. Be thankful for what you got and move on is my advise. Good luck.
jenygump11ParticipantSeptember 21, 2018 at 6:54 pm #185043
She may be upset as well. There can be many factors. I suggest you two have a discussion. That’s where your get your real answer.
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