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In short, I’m 28 & last summer I met a woman who I really adored and fell for immediately. We went out for a bit but she went back with an ex. That didn’t work out for too long and we soon became friends again and became friends.
We’ve grown closer in recent months and I felt like I was making progress with her when the other night we were supposed to hang out. Well, she showed up drunk and completely threw herself at me. She told me all this stuff about how she loved me because I was always there for her and always said and did the right thing. She said she wanted to marry me and what not.
I didn’t take advantage of her knowing that could hurt me in the long run nor did I express how deep my feelings; However, she claimed she loved me and knew I loved her too which was hard to deny.
A day later, she immediately told me what she was seeing other people and thinks we shouldn’t talk to each other for at least another men.
Is there anything I can do at this point?
TheTodd28ParticipantMarch 15, 2015 at 9:16 pm #75404
If I’m being honest here, and I think that’s what you want…she seems really flaky to me. She seems like the type to wanna just keep you on the edge of your seat and mess with your mind. Been there, dealt with the crappy feelings. Ask yourself this question: Do I really want to be with someone who doesn’t want to be with me as bad as I want to be with them? I’m all for second chances, but not 3 in this case. Never marry anyone without dating them through all four seasons – best advice I’ve ever gotten.March 16, 2015 at 8:39 am #75405
Thanks for the reply, Todd. I forgot to mention that I was in a relationship for about 6 months with a different woman. I broke it off with the other woman about a week before this incident happened so at the time, girl was under the impression that I was still with her. I eventually told her I broke it off but I think this drunken incident really embarrassed her. I know she has complex feelings for me as she has outright admitted it but I don’t want that one incident to ruin this whole thing. I truly love this woman.
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