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poshgirlParticipantFebruary 18, 2017 at 5:06 pm #127539
I know this guy from where I used to work who has asked me to meet him next weekend for a drink. He started messaging me during the olympics last year, he ended first message with “x” (kiss) which surprised me. These messages often went on until after midnight. Then there was a gap so I messaged him and found out he was really busy with work and family issues. We arranged to meet for a coffee after a few rainchecks, which turned into lunch and although we both said we should do it again, I honestly expected it to be another lunch sometime.
He was in a long-term relationship then told me he had met someone else. As I haven’t been in a relationship for a while I’m not sure whether I’m misinterpreting his invitation. Haven’t replied to him yet, thought I would leave it a couple of days so I don’t appear too keen. We share some interests but there’s quite an age gap (he’s younger than me). I don’t think he’s realised this as I don’t look my age. Am I over-analysing this?
Alex_mParticipantFebruary 20, 2017 at 8:52 pm #127595
It doesn’t sound like a date in my opinion . Seems like catching up over drinks
Treez64ParticipantFebruary 24, 2017 at 11:10 am #128146
Hi there, I’m reading this a bit late lol.
Can I ask what happened? if you don’t mind.
I thought he sounded interested in you but he was unsure of your feelings towards him (because of age gap maybe).
poshgirlParticipantFebruary 24, 2017 at 11:32 am #128150
Treez64, it hasn’t happened yet. I replied and said yes but not heard anything further from him. It’s supposed to be next weekend.
Don’t know if he’s a good judge of age or not, we’ll have to see………
F1endParticipantFebruary 24, 2017 at 2:43 pm #128217
I think you are open to it, if you are being honest lol.
And drinks is more sexual. It’s going in that direction.
So, go and find out.
CatD4ParticipantFebruary 26, 2017 at 12:43 pm #128330
I think it was more of a casual get-to-know you, but doesn’t mean there might not be a proper date. I hope it turns out for the best for you
ptz22ParticipantFebruary 27, 2017 at 2:38 am #128343
Seems more casual
User1234ParticipantFebruary 27, 2017 at 6:21 am #128346
doesn’t sound like one, no
wandererParticipantMarch 1, 2017 at 10:49 pm #128737
Sorry it doesn’t sound like a date, it sounds more like friends talking over lunch/coffee to catch up on their lives.
RoxOliParticipantMarch 2, 2017 at 5:32 am #128741
I have to agree… doesn’t sound like he was all too interested.. But my advice is not to take it personally. As Miranda from SATS says – He is just not that into me! Burger (Kerry’s boyfriend at the time) told her that when she was over-analyzing things about a date that didn’t want to come to her apartment after a date.
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