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NotSoILieParticipantOctober 4, 2013 at 11:21 am #40618
So I met a woman a week ago, hit things off pretty well, hung out a little over the week. Anyways, I think I’m interested in her, and there is at least a chance that the feeling is mutual.
I was thinking about asking her to lunch this weekend, and essentially asking her if she wants to continue this relationship romantically or just as a friendship. Does that sound like a sound plan, or is that question too forward? I should have no problem working it into the conversation; for whatever reason I have no problem making small talk with her like I typically do in one-on-one situations with women.
Anyone care to weigh in on this?
skrillex4lifeParticipantOctober 16, 2013 at 10:37 am #41296
I would be careful being to forward this early. Try to have a nice lunch date and then instead of giving her an ultimatum like proposal just ask her out for something else. Step it up a bit, like a nice dinner or a day trip or something.
AnimalLoverParticipantOctober 16, 2013 at 10:38 am #41299
It sounds like you have a good thing going, but if it has only been a week I would say to hold off on the labels for now. Enjoy yourselves and get a feel for each other before trying to jump into a relationship. I would say have lunch with her, get to know her more as a person, and avoid the forward questions because putting her on the spot after spending very little time with her is a lot of pressure. After a certain amount of time, it usually becomes clear whether or not someone wants to be in a relationship or not, so don’t worry about it and just enjoy your time getting to know each other in the meantime.
NotSoILieParticipantOctober 16, 2013 at 10:43 am #41305
Thanks for the replies. I ended up doing the lunch date sans ultimatum, and things went well. Date#4 planned for this weekend
robson921ParticipantOctober 26, 2013 at 11:56 am #41967
Nice to hear that everything went well 🙂 Good luck
salyerjParticipantOctober 27, 2013 at 10:45 pm #41970
Good stuff. I suggest that you just focus on hanging out, having fun, and hooking up. Don’t overcomplicate things. Let her be the one that brings up the exclusivity.
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