Is this girl crazy or is it just me?

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Is this girl crazy or is it just me?

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    jtb333
    jtb333
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    March 23, 2018 at 3:26 am #168224
    Is this girl crazy or is it just me?

    So I’ve been having some problems with my gf of about 1 year. The past couple months have been rough and my gf has been getting angry at me over every little thing I do wrong. Just last night she snapped and went to bed angry because I didn’t answer my phone for 10 minutes while she was going to bed. She seems quite distant when we’re not in person. She says I don’t do sweet things and often tells me how other girls boyfriends are doing more than me. In the past 2 months though we’ve went to dinner twice, a concert, and other things. Just last week I bought her a build a bear because she wanted one so badly and I thought it would cheer her up. (It did). Anyways, she basically shut me out for a week because I was very busy with university and wanted to see my old high school friends for a night. As a result I could only watch her soccer game and see her for 4 or so hours that week.I need some perspective. Am I just not right for her? Or is she being overly demanding/crazy.

    jtb333
    jtb333
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    March 23, 2018 at 3:36 am #168226

    Also. I genuinely care about her. When she’s not angry things go quite well and I see something special. It’s just that this has been happening less and less. I’ve tried a lot to fix this relationship, even opening up multiple times about how she makes me feel like a really shitty person in hopes of making her change. Is there maybe anything else I can try? Thanks

    Oldbutnew
    Oldbutnew
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    July 30, 2018 at 6:39 pm #180519

    Have you considered couples counseling.? If not, suggest it as a way for the two of you
    to get closer.

    emilydavis8218
    emilydavis8218
    Participant
    August 2, 2018 at 10:52 pm #180752

    I think you are correct to recognize that something isn’t going right. While I’m inclined to believe you that your girlfriend is acting a bit crazy I think she’s not being completely forward and telling you straight up what’s wrong. You guys need to sit down and determine that if you are both still committed to each other, then what is the problem here? Is you gf insecure that her friends have better bfs? Is she feeling down because there is something else wrong in her life? Does she what to breakup? You should also be honest I and tell her how you feel about her when things are going crazy…good luck

    MG
    MG
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    August 18, 2018 at 10:13 pm #181896

    jtb333, for the time being a year out now since you started dating, it could be that her true colors are now showing. You need to decide, if you can live with this behavior or not. Chances this has happened in prior relationships and isn’t new to her because it’s a pattern she’s stuck in. She might have emotional problems and looking to you to fix whatever is wrong in her life. Your ability to demonstrate affection and attention is there but her expectation is much greater than might be realistic and she will continue to nag you about it. Take it from me, women have holes in their heart sometimes and look for others to fill what they cannot fill in for themselves.