Liking a girl who might move away in a year


Liking a girl who might move away in a year

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    July 3, 2014 at 6:26 pm #56759
    Liking a girl who might move away in a year

    I’m senior staff at a camp, and I’m working with a girl who I’ve come to like. We have a lot in common and get along great. She also appreciates the way I look out for her. I’m looking forward to hanging out outside work, and I hope this lasts beyond summer. She’s attending school nearby, and I’m debating asking her out after summer ends (it’d be wrong to start now, especially if things don’t work out). However, she’s already accepted to a program in Florida starting a year from now. I’m not one for long distance relationships and I don’t think it’s right to start dating someone who I know will be leaving one day, nor do I think it’s right to force her to choose between me (assuming it were to work out) and this program she’s earned. I want something long lasting and I’m afraid I need to let this one go (i.e. just be friends). Or should I take a risk knowing the future isn’t written? She said she’s partly going because she has nothing tying her down here. Maybe that could be me?

    July 4, 2014 at 12:05 am #56767

    Yes it could and those are the signs she is giving to show that she really want you and her to be together but ladies normally want for the man to make his move so don’t let a good one slip away plus you share the same characteristics. Better start dating from now so see has a reason to stay.

    July 8, 2014 at 11:35 pm #56970

    Honestly I agree with what hikeno said don’t let a good one get away.

    July 9, 2014 at 12:35 am #56971

    ^ Genius advice from all.

    July 10, 2014 at 9:21 am #57039

    It is rare to find a woman who is direct in her communication. I think that is the case here.

    I think her comment “nothing tying her down here” was a hint; I find women like to give hints.

    Tell her you interesting in going out after camp ends and tell her WHY. She will respect you for that. You will also put the ball in her court.

    Take is from someone who has “one that got away”… don’t let it happen to you.

    Good luck!

    July 10, 2014 at 10:25 pm #57163

    Yes! We only live once! Go get her! Good luck!

    July 11, 2014 at 8:29 am #57083

    That so true maybe she is saying that she is going to move away for you to make your move, she don’t want to just say let start date that’s no the style of a real lady.

    July 11, 2014 at 7:37 pm #57308

    Agree with everyone else.

    July 17, 2014 at 11:12 am #57652

    if you see something special to her don’t let her go. ask her out. Who knows what will happen in the future.

    July 20, 2014 at 12:21 am #57834
    Reply To: Liking a girl who might move away in a year

    Give it a shot! You never know what could happen.