Long time friend to New lover?


Long time friend to New lover?

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    November 28, 2012 at 11:08 pm #17493
    Long time friend to New lover?

    I need some advice for this little mess I’m in

    This girl is awesome. we’ve been friends of a friend for about 5 years now. We like a lot of the same things and she likes a ton of my status on Facebook and so forth.

    She is absolutely gorgeous, smart, funny, kind and all the things I like, but there is one thing stopping it.
    So called story months ago (5 year relationship): she came home to the apartment they share and the boyfriend accused her of cheating. She got really mad and stormed out of there and the next day grabbed all her stuff. (this is the story from a few of the group members that have heard the story so far, but she hasn’t told me about it yet and I haven’t asked her either and she hasn’t said anything)

    So I don’t the full story and if if it was false I’d drop it all to pick her up and stop playing games.

    What I’m thinking: Should I Ask her what happened with her ex boyfriend to find the truth? what if all the stories are lies with her cheating or if she was treated horribly? i still don’t feel good about cheaters, but I can understand if she was hurt.

    I mean I really do like her and I think she feels the same, but I think we are both worried that we don’t want to make things awkward in case we don’t feel the same about each other. What should I do?