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ltd78146

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April 16, 2018 at 3:44 pm #170776

Man dating a woman previously with a woman

I met this girl a couple of years ago. When we met she was married to a woman. She ended up separating from here wife but the group we hang around still and do until this day, associate them as a couple. She and I started hooking up, she was the pursuer, shortly after she separated. That started a journey of getting to know each other. As it turns out, we’re extremely compatible. There have been ups and downs but over the course of knowing her we have ultimately become closer and closer. It’s almost at the point where we are dating but only a few people close to us know that’s what it is. The biggest problem is that she has identified as a lesbian for a while know. She’s 28 and has dated the woman she married to for 8 years. It was a big issue with her family that she married a woman. She has told though that she made a conscious decision to date women over men. I’m sure there’s more to it but she referenced more personality traits than sexual attraction as the reason.

ltd78146

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April 16, 2018 at 3:48 pm #170777

We had a really good conversation recently after a sort of argument that brought us even closer. I think more and more people we know are seeing it. I don’t know if she’ll ever openly declare it. Knowing I’m with her feels like enough but I’m not sure it will be down the road. I also don’t know if I’m setting my self up for heartbreak. We haven’t really defined our relationship yet. I’m not sure she will. I’m just looking for some thoughts.