Meeting girls at dance events

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Meeting girls at dance events

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    tstudent
    tstudent
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    April 13, 2019 at 6:39 am #198628
    Meeting girls at dance events

    Hello!

    I’ve been dancing for a while (social dancing, e.g. tango or salsa), and I’ve noticed that it’s a great way to meet people in general, and possibly even someone I’d like to date. However, when I meet someone who I’m interested in, I’m unable to move things forward. Usually we just dance, maybe talk a little, but then it’s over and we change partners (it’s a custom to change partners after 2 songs). So here are my questions.

    – How could I transition the conversation to deeper topics when dancing (or should I)? Also, do you have any flirting tips?
    Usually, if there even is any conversation, it’s about dancing. Slow songs are the best for talking, but it still isn’t the correct place for “what’s your biggest passion” – kind of conversation.

    tstudent
    tstudent
    Participant
    April 13, 2019 at 6:39 am #198629

    – How do I make plans to connect after the dance evening?
    I could ask her number while dancing, but I think that would be a little akward out of the blue. As there is a cafeteria at most dance places, so in some cases, I could ask her if she wants to have a break after dancing, and chat a little and ask her number. But generally people go to those places to dance and may prefer to have as little breaks as possible.

    tstudent
    tstudent
    Participant
    April 27, 2019 at 5:28 am #199340

    Apparently, everyone else finds this difficult as well? 😀

    El8482
    El8482
    Participant
    April 29, 2019 at 8:34 am #199343

    I love dancing and usually don’t have a problem to talk to smb who showed interest in me. Just relax and enjoy. If it is not your person then you don’t need to force yourself trying to continue smth that wasn’t meant to be.

    yeet345
    yeet345
    Participant
    May 5, 2019 at 2:41 pm #199892

    I’d say to have a conversation, even if it’s just flirting or just about dance, with your dance partner, and to try and find them after you’re done dancing/taking a break. This would be the best opportunity, in my opinion, to talk to someone you just met at an event, and a better place to maybe get their number/social media.