Met a nice girl at the bar, got great connection with her but no response on my

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Met a nice girl at the bar, got great connection with her but no response on my

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    licooper
    licooper
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    February 10, 2019 at 3:59 pm #194594
    Met a nice girl at the bar, got great connection with her but no response on my

    Hey,
    I met a girl at the bar and we really hit it off. We spent about 10min chatting together before I had to leave but all signs were that she was interested: prolonged eye contact, smiling, conversation was very easy going, light arm touching from her and it felt like conversation could go on and on. I asked her out and gave me her phone number.
    So, I texted her the next day asking how did the rest of the night go with the intention to eventually set up a date, and she hasn’t responded yet (5h since then so far).
    When should I text her back if she doesn’t respond to me and what should I say? I don’t want to come of needy, but nowadays people are on their phones all the time. There’s no way she didn’t see the text from me and I always get a text from my friends within like 5 minutes at most.
    Also, I know how time sensitive the matter is, that is why I’m asking this question even only 5h past after my text.

    licooper
    licooper
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    February 10, 2019 at 3:59 pm #194595

    Also, I’ve been in the similar situation before. Good vibes when I meet the girl in person, but the next day when I texted her she replied on my every second message at most. It felt like I was dragging the response out of her. So, I dropped an attempt that time because I thought she is not interested.

    Thank you.

    newgirl
    newgirl
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    February 10, 2019 at 4:17 pm #194597

    Really, just chill!!!
    It ONLY has been 5 hours.
    Plenty of things can be done in 5 hours!
    When she doesn’t text you back after 5 days, well… yeah then it’s clear.
    You don’t want to seem needy, but neither does she! Maybe that’s why she’s waiting so long.
    Or she could just be busy.. family visit maybe, day out with her friends, some people work on Sundays, …
    So many possibilities!
    Just wait and relax a bit

    newgirl
    newgirl
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    February 10, 2019 at 4:20 pm #194598

    Really, just chill!!!
    It ONLY has been 5 hours.
    Plenty of things can be done in 5 hours!
    When she doesn’t text you back after 5 days, well… yeah then it’s clear.
    You don’t want to seem needy, but neither does she! Maybe that’s why she’s waiting so long.
    Or she could just be busy.. family visit maybe, day out with her friends, some people work on Sundays, …
    So many possibilities!
    Just wait and relax a bit

    licooper
    licooper
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    February 11, 2019 at 8:20 am #194600

    Haha
    well, it’s not that I’m inpatient, it is just that I don’t know if there is anything behind her not responding. to break it simple, as a guy I must know what’s going on to choose how to act. Otherwise I’m not doing my job right.

    licooper
    licooper
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    February 11, 2019 at 2:27 pm #194713

    Hey LeviKing,
    I read your post (before it was deleted) and bought your book to support your project. Thanks. It looks like you and me are on the same page: I also appears to me that women like when men take charge, direct and confident. And, frankly, that is what I’m trying to accomplish. But as I am reading more on how people flirt, date and eventually have sex, I realize it is not that simple. I don’t know why but it appears to me that girls overcomplicate things. Anyway, I’m confused for now 😀 But we’ll see where it will lead me. If you are reading this, let’s get in touch over email or something and talk more about it. Let me know and I share my email with you.

    P.S. I’m not sure about calling them though. Nowadays, calling is intrusive. I hate when people call me and I’m in the middle of work.