Military career interfering with my relationships.


Military career interfering with my relationships.

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    June 23, 2013 at 1:47 pm #33983
    Military career interfering with my relationships.

    I have been going out for the last month and a half with a girl I really like. In the last week it got serious and we slept together. It seemed all well and good until I received a text later the next day that starts with the words every man hates to hear, “I have been thinking about you and me”. She said she wanted stability in a relationship and is afraid that with my deployment schedule that she would not be able to wait. I do not deploy for another 5 months and only if I choose to stay in. I tried to tell her to live for the now and not worry about things that may or may not happen later. But I don’t know what to do, this is the third time this crap has happened to me and it is making me very bitter about my job.