Mixed feelings


Mixed feelings

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    November 4, 2015 at 10:13 pm #87926
    Mixed feelings

    So I have an issue, I had a crush on a friend over 2 years ago but she had a girlfriend at the time and I thought my feelings were gone by now, now I’m about to marry an amazing woman but lately I’ve been thinking about my old friend and she’s single now but I’m not and idk how to handle the confusion in my head. I love the woman I’m with but the thoughts I’ve been having are making it hard to concentrate. I don’t want to mess up a good thing but I’m starting to have doubts about getting married.

    November 5, 2015 at 8:07 am #87929

    Dude. I’m in the same boat you were in!!! I have a friend who has a girlfriend currently, but I know there’s a mutual attraction. I just can’t prove it! Did she explicitly express interest in you? If so, I probably would hold of on marriage man and date that chick. Especially considering you’re already thinking about other women. Sounds like the start of a long rough road.

    December 8, 2015 at 6:43 pm #89757

    I’ve been in the same situation. First you need to understand why you feel the way you feel. You know the saying “If you really loved someone you’d let them go”? I always thought how the hell do I let them go, what if they feel the same way!? A bunch of questions. I’m deeply in love with my current girlfriend. If I had someone whom I loved before come back into my life who was my best friend for 7 long years, and knew I crushed on her….I’d honestly stay with my current girlfriend. I think I built so much with this person I’m with now, why crumble it to see if it’d work out with an old crush or an old love? Trying new things is nice, but this situation is a double edge sword. Half of you might think Oh my god I don’t want to miss my chance with this girl I loved for so long, and the other half of you might think I’m about to get married, I’m committing my love to her, why should I shove her to the side for this girl who I don’t know feels the same!? You got this though. Good luck!