Mixed Signals Really need help thanks

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Mixed Signals Really need help thanks

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    Firas
    Firas
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    July 17, 2018 at 1:25 am #179517
    Mixed Signals Really need help thanks

    Ok I Really need help guys

    After a 5 year marriage and it has been 4 years after the divorce, you can tell im rusty and in need of asap help 🙂

    I am getting back in the game and working slowly

    My Quetion is i see the woman who is checking me out and looking at me

    But there is some time the girl looks at me and expect me to do something in less then 2 seconds Some times i catch my self saying WOW that was way to fast

    and some times im not sure if it is an opener on her side or is she just f—king around

    Im having

    Mixed Signals
    any advice is appreciated just get me up and running any video / book / audio book

    or any good forums on the internet

    to learn more about is she talking to me or i am thinking this ???

    many thanks to all

    dashingscorpio
    dashingscorpio
    Participant
    July 17, 2018 at 8:31 am #179521

    We live in an era where everyone seems to be afraid of rejection.
    Most people want a “sure thing” or else they walk away (wondering) “what if”.

    The people with the most success in dating are those unafraid of being told “no”.
    They don’t become overly emotionally invested in an outcome with any one individual.
    In a world with over 7 Billion people rejection just means: NEXT!

    Life in many respects is a “numbers game”. Not everyone is going to say: “No”.
    Also the more calls you make or doors you knock on the better you get with flirty comebacks.
    You might check out the following two books on Amazon and decide if they may be of help.
    One is for flirting and the other is for selecting a mate and navigating through relationships.

    “Conversation Casanova: How to Effortlessly Start Conversations and Flirt Like a Pro” by Dave Perrotta

    “My Cat Won’t Bark! (A Relationship Epiphany)” by Kevin Darné

    Best wishes!

    Coach_Michael21
    Coach_Michael21
    Participant
    July 17, 2018 at 10:12 am #179551

    You’re spending too much time overthinking and analyzing. You need to be taking more action. If you like this girl and are attracted to her, don’t sit around wondering what she’s thinking when she looks at you. “Analysis Paralysis” is a real thing, and it hinders your efforts when meeting women. If you like her, and want to get to know her, just go talk to her! You’ll find out soon enough what her feelings are.

    As Dashing Scorpio said, so many of us fail because we’re afraid of rejection. When we lose that fear, we stop caring what people think of us and we take more action. If we fall on our face, we get back on the wagon and keep riding. We end up dating more women as a result of not having this fear.

    Firas
    Firas
    Participant
    July 19, 2018 at 3:14 pm #179896

    I feel it today

    Today was the first time in my Life talking with and flirting with her and asked for the number as I was smiling and just waiting for her to say NO

    But she didn’t WOW

    that’s was some feeling

    Thanks Guys 🙂

    Leroy
    Leroy
    Participant
    July 19, 2018 at 3:50 pm #179921

    Good luck with her bro.