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asdigitalParticipantJuly 9, 2019 at 3:48 am #203460
Hello. I and my girlfriend are together for almost a year now. We both live and work in a different town, however, we meet and stay together 3-4 times per week (mostly her apartment and in the weekends).
Now we want to grow our relationship and move together under one roof, however, we always “fight” who will move to another person’s town. We both love, trust and like each other but we both don’t really like traveling (and losing) 3 hours to go and come back from work on a daily basis.
How can we solve this in a fair way?
dashingscorpioParticipantJuly 13, 2019 at 5:56 pm #203623
“we meet and stay together 3-4 times per week..”
“we both don’t really like traveling (and losing) 3 hours to go and come back from work on a daily basis.”
You both need to side which more important being together or living apart.
I chose to move from Southern California to be with my now wife who lived in the Chicago area.
A few months later I found a good job and the rest is history.
“If you really want something you will find a way. If you don’t you will find an excuse.’ – Jim Rohn
Someone has to step up to the plate and relocate or else your relationship has gone as far as it will.
Some deciding factors may be who has the best or highest paying career.
Which of you would probably have the easiest time to find a job making the same amount of money as now?
Are their other circumstances such as being close senior parents.
Is either of you a home owner?
Do you believe you have found the person you want to marry?
When you’re “all in” you tend to focus on the upside.
When you have doubts you play the “what if” game.
- This reply was modified 2 months, 1 week ago by dashingscorpio.
kaiParticipantJuly 14, 2019 at 2:16 pm #203641
What if always cause problems. you need a real good sit down and think this through
singlesteveParticipantJuly 15, 2019 at 1:27 am #203646
maybe you should consider in which town there are more possibilities for professional growth for both of you and then discuss everything together
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