Moved too fast?


Moved too fast?

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    patrice agosto
    patrice agosto
    June 10, 2018 at 6:04 pm #176649
    Moved too fast?

    I was dating a guy for a month. Everything was going great we had great chemistry and connection. I Supported him by getting him things I thought could help him out. He contacted me regularly and I stayed a couple weekends at his house. He also took me on a couple nice dates and I thought we enjoyed each other’s company immensely. I admit I believe we moved rather quickly being that this was my first post divorce relationship which included intimacy in over 2 years. I asked him on a date and my card declined at the restaurant. The bill was $48. He paid the bill and left me in the restaurant and Later texted me that he was embarrassed and don’t call him. Was he trying to get rid of me all along? Did he have someone on the side or something that would make him break things off so abruptly?

    June 11, 2018 at 1:28 pm #176702

    I’m soo sorry that happened to you, it sounds like he was waiting for an opportunity to leave the relationship.
    This is not your fault you could have accidentally stepped on his foot and he would have done the same thing.
    sorry sweetie….

    June 12, 2018 at 12:20 am #176747

    Good Morning

    You are a sweet woman This has nothing to do with his actions

    do not blame ur self for thinds he has don

    I am a man and i take full responsibility for my actions

    Hop this will help

    June 12, 2018 at 11:18 am #176811

    A (one month) relationship isn’t worth giving much thought about. Don’t waste time trying to “figure him out”.

    Each of us (chooses) our own friends, lovers, and spouse.
    Each of us has our own mate selection process/”must haves list”
    Each of us has our boundaries and “deal breakers”.

    You said: “…he texted me that he was embarrassed and don’t call him.
    Maybe dating women with (bad credit) is one of his “deal breakers”

    Clearly he was not really “into you” or he wouldn’t have left you in a restaurant.
    Ultimately what difference does it make if you’re not going to continue the relationship.
    Closure is overrated! There’s nothing he can say that would make you feel better about being dumped.

    In a world with over 7 Billion people rejection just means: NEXT!
    Every ending is a new beginning!
    Best wishes!