My best friend had sex with my crush on my birthday in my house?

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My best friend had sex with my crush on my birthday in my house?

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    Xerxesb
    Xerxesb
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    December 2, 2017 at 2:18 am #158348
    My best friend had sex with my crush on my birthday in my house?

    They started kissing and went to my bedroom. He knew how I liked that girl.

    They drank some wine and were a bit drunk. My friend only drank half a cup so I don’t think that’s a good excuse.

    Anyway I really do not want to talk to him anymore, even though he apologized. He keeps sending messages on Instagram.

    By the way I’m 28,he’s 29 and the girl is 24

    tbella
    tbella
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    December 12, 2017 at 7:32 pm #159906

    I will say this…..life is too short for you to stay mad at your friend for this. You may have had a crush on her but evidently she liked your friend more. You will meet someone else she was only crush but don’t lose your friendship over this. People are no possessions.

    Billybob3
    Billybob3
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    December 13, 2017 at 10:29 am #159944

    Don’t sweat it, you’ll find someone else.

    tipswithtim
    tipswithtim
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    December 18, 2017 at 12:11 pm #160340

    You will find someone else dw

    SteveyP129
    SteveyP129
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    December 22, 2017 at 7:58 pm #160894

    Keep your head up

    HalBZ343498
    HalBZ343498
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    December 23, 2017 at 10:05 am #160909

    With friends like this, who needs enemies? Find another friend. Friends don’t act this way!

    marioschluse
    marioschluse
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    January 8, 2018 at 8:43 am #161777

    ort for you to stay mad at your friend for this. You may have had a crush on her but evidently she liked your friend more. You will meet someone else she was only crush but don’t lose your friendship over this. People are no possessions.

    Totally agree. A real friend would help you get the girl you like, not stealing her from you!
    Moreover, it seems like didn’t tell you he likes her as well, so he wasn’t honest to you.
    If he didn’t like her, then it’s even worse. He just wanted to sex without even liking the girl and hurting you…

    Just drop your so called friend.

    Kandice0809
    Kandice0809
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    January 8, 2018 at 6:05 pm #161913

    A lot of guys do the whole “bros before h**s” thing. So with that being said I’m pretty sure your friends feels as if you aren’t offended by it. I think you should let him know how he disappointed you and be completely honest. IF, you as a grown 28, 29 year old man don’t feel better afterwards… Move along from the friendship. But, it being you all are men I highly doubt you cut him off that abrupt. Best of luck and good luck with the next woman. Maybe you should have mentioned liking her sooner? Blessings!

    phoenix777
    phoenix777
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    January 10, 2018 at 9:06 am #162057

    Remember, if she is not in a relationship with you, she can hook up with anyone she wants.

    With that being said, talk with your friend about it. I’m more pissed that they hooked up in your bedroom (without him asking you right?) Be willing to forgive him this one time. Make it clear that he does it again, then you will not be friends with him anymore.

    As for your crush, you need to start making some moves on her.

    DoodleBob
    DoodleBob
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    January 10, 2018 at 12:58 pm #162107
    Reply To: My best friend had sex with my crush on my birthday in my house?

    Talking it through would be good.

    brad3145
    brad3145
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    January 10, 2018 at 10:17 pm #162178
    Reply To: My best friend had sex with my crush on my birthday in my house?

    I would move on from both relationships. That’s going to be really tough to heal from.

    mrjohnny
    mrjohnny
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    January 17, 2018 at 4:04 pm #162660
    Reply To: My best friend had sex with my crush on my birthday in my house?

    Yeah dude…I’m a bit late but don’t sweat the little things. Like most everyone is saying there’s plenty of chicks in the sea.

    joenat75
    joenat75
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    January 27, 2018 at 5:24 am #163601
    Reply To: My best friend had sex with my crush on my birthday in my house?

    move on dude.. Accept it that your crush have a crush on your friend and sheis gone. So move on 😀

    jennyfer
    jennyfer
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    January 28, 2018 at 3:36 am #163620
    Reply To: My best friend had sex with my crush on my birthday in my house?

    your crush already crushed your best friend you are late….

    danno
    danno
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    February 2, 2018 at 9:33 am #164365
    Reply To: My best friend had sex with my crush on my birthday in my house?

    If your friend knew about how you felt about her, then that’s totally not cool. I wouldn’t completely ditch that friendship, but think I’d just naturally be more distant.