My Mom Hates My Girlfriend

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My Mom Hates My Girlfriend

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    smith2828
    smith2828
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    March 15, 2019 at 4:44 pm #196889
    My Mom Hates My Girlfriend

    Me and my girlfriend have been together for about a month now. She has already met my parents and things went well. My mom liked her and said she was welcome any time. We are both seniors in high school so our time together isn’t as much as we may like. So I made the rash decision of inviting her over while my parents were gone. I acknowledge that this was completely my fault. I thought I had planned everything out and that nothing would go wrong. We weren’t doing anything sexual. We just played some Mario Kart and chilled in my room. Well my mother came home earlier than expected and popped off on my girlfriend and called her a whore and such. She thought we were having sex and told my girlfriend that she was never allowed in the house again and then told me after she left that I shouldn’t be “with a little whore”. My girlfriend was crying and felt terrible as did I and still do. I don’t know if I should try and convince my mother to let me stay with her but still have limits.

    smith2828
    smith2828
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    March 15, 2019 at 4:45 pm #196890

    I was finally happy and thought things were going well but I’m stuck on what to do. She isn’t a distraction as my grades are very good and I’ve been accepted to multiple colleges already.

    dashingscorpio
    dashingscorpio
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    March 17, 2019 at 5:00 pm #196935

    Forget about it!
    Just about every teenager has gotten caught by their parents with someone at the wrong time.
    Making out in the backseat of car. That’s life!

    Mothers often think {no girl} is good enough for their sons.
    Just like fathers believe no boy good enough for their daughters.
    It’s no wonder why there is so much animosity between the genders later in life.
    Everyone is brainwashed into believing the other gender is no good! (For 18+ years of their life)

    You’re never going to feel free or adult-like until you move out of your parent’s home.
    For most teens that means going away to college, joining the military, or finding a job that pays enough for your own place.

    Your options are to either sneak around together or wait until one you has an alternative place to spend time.
    You’re in your senior year and if the two of you are going away to different colleges the relationship is over.
    Even if you were staying in the same town most people don’t find their “soulmate” at age 17 or 18.

    zackhogan1234
    zackhogan1234
    Participant
    March 18, 2019 at 2:47 am #196953

    Oh boy… Not sure what to say here.

    Just gotta sneak around for awhile here.

    marriedbachelor
    marriedbachelor
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    March 24, 2019 at 12:48 pm #197502

    I am afraid to say your mom is being the immature type if she hates your girlfriend; she needs to talk intellectually and explain why she hates

    RNSPT
    RNSPT
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    March 26, 2019 at 11:13 am #197667

    be your own man and make your own decisions. still respect your parents but don’t let them run your life

    arlucian
    arlucian
    Participant
    March 28, 2019 at 3:22 am #197803

    Honestly, you are seniors in high school i don’t see a problem having sex, whether you did or didn’t maybe you should tell your mom about the birds and the bees and that the girl will be in your life either way,.

    pathetic101
    pathetic101
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    March 29, 2019 at 8:11 am #197907
    Reply To: My Mom Hates My Girlfriend

    i guess you could try to make your mother understand that you werent doing anything sexual and ask her why she thought that…

    Ramrod51
    Ramrod51
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    March 29, 2019 at 10:50 am #197924
    Reply To: My Mom Hates My Girlfriend

    Are your parents very catholic people by any chance?

    DomiAbr
    DomiAbr
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    March 29, 2019 at 4:12 pm #197930
    Reply To: My Mom Hates My Girlfriend

    I agree with pathetic101 and find it the best way to solve you problem, especially if you really like this girl. Anyway, your shouldn’t give up