Need advice on what to do with regarding a woman I like


Need advice on what to do with regarding a woman I like

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    March 4, 2016 at 6:38 pm #95008
    Need advice on what to do with regarding a woman I like

    I have a huge crush on this girl that works across the hall from me (we’re in grad school).

    A couple months back I was messaging with her on facebook and at one point I said “we should ditch work sometime and get a drink”. She replied “sounds cool”. After that I stopped talking to her for a month or so (I was busy) until recently, because I kept thinking/dreaming about her frequently (not sexual dreams).

    Anyways, I have been chatting with her on facebook messenger over the course of the past few weeks. At least once every other day we will be messaging off and on over the course the day. I have always initiated these conversations, but she always replies. I will send her jokes, funny pictures, we will talk about work and make fun of our bosses, etc.
    My only concern is – she never initiates the conversations, but she does respond.

    Should I back off for a few days and see if she contacts me first? Will this reveal whether she likes me back?

    March 16, 2016 at 1:51 am #95764

    I think you should set up a date with her or a hangout time. I think that’s partly how I messed up; by talking too much on the phone.

    May 2, 2016 at 5:02 pm #99499

    Yes definitely invite her out! girls like the texting but until some point. Its time to take her on a date

    Jack Henson
    May 2, 2016 at 11:23 pm #99542

    I would definitely ask her out. Doesn’t have to be anything crazy, just go get that drink you talked about. Too much talking without making your intentions explicit is a big mistake. Good luck!

    May 3, 2016 at 4:56 pm #99553

    I’m sorry, you work across the hall from her?!?!?

    Get your happy lovesick ass up, stroll across the hall and casually mention how, although Facebook is a convenient way to have mindless conversations, going out for a super quick drink right now would be much better.

    And yes, lots of women won’t initiate conversation. They expect you to do the work and put forth the effort.

    May 4, 2016 at 9:05 am #99760

    Sounds like you really have nothing to lose by asking her out. Just do it and see where it goes from there.