Need guys' advice! Should I ask him out?


Need guys' advice! Should I ask him out?

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    February 9, 2015 at 5:14 pm #72981
    Need guys' advice! Should I ask him out?

    Hi 🙂

    I met this guy in one of my college classes last semester, we talked a bit but not really. I kind of like him so after the semester ended I added him on Facebook, then we talked online for a while and I asked him if he wants to get dinner together sometime. He said yes, but I didn’t push it so we didn’t set up a date and time. Since then I haven’t talked to him on Facebook, but I’ve seen him occasionally around campus and he just says hi and that’s it.

    Question: should I message him again and ask him out at a specific time, or is he just not interested and trying not to hurt my feelings?

    • This topic was modified 3 years, 4 months ago by  tigerlily.

    February 10, 2015 at 8:40 am #72995

    But he’s not my ex. I briefly met the guy in class and I want to get to know him better. Ok I guess I get your point he doesn’t like me. Oh well.

    February 11, 2015 at 11:54 pm #73268

    Definitely ask him out. You’ll never now until you do. If he says no, at least you’ll know and you can start to forgot about it. Message him! He might be wondering the same thing about you.

    March 14, 2015 at 2:24 am #75359

    ya go for it

    March 14, 2015 at 12:00 pm #75366

    Ask him out. He probably thought you lost interest because you let the dinner date fizzle. Do the same thing but set up a date and time this time.

    March 21, 2015 at 9:44 am #75778

    go 4 it

    March 23, 2015 at 12:00 pm #75825

    Go for it. It will take u nowhere if you don’t start to do something.

    March 23, 2015 at 4:27 pm #75836

    Definitely ask him out – life is full of missed opportunities. What is the worst that could happen – he says no? then move on – at least you will know where you stand and you can then yourself move on. As a guy i have never been asked out on a date by a girl – never! but if i liked her i would say yes of course. Be brave and do it – what is the worst that could happen. Good luck

    March 23, 2015 at 6:02 pm #75850

    Go 4 it