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So I’ve been talking to a girl online for a while now and she seems really interested. Our conversations are always long and it’s always in paragraphs, we have a lot in common too! I have asked her to meet up but she says she’s a seasonal worker and will let me know when she’s free
My problem is that she’s recently becoming more quiet and I’m worried that she might of lost interest.
I really like this girl and I don’t want to mess it up but I feel like she’s being weird with me (being quiet, possibly avoiding the meet up)
annon12121ParticipantDecember 17, 2017 at 1:54 am #160287
Definitely wait a little while. Maybe see if she will spark a conversation with you.
If not, try again in a few days. But if you are that worried just ask her straight upDecember 17, 2017 at 5:44 am #160288
Thanks guys for responding!
Since I’ve made this post she has replied! But she still avoids the question of meeting up :/ is this normal?December 21, 2017 at 4:15 pm #160771
The girl I’m talking to always replies to the question with “soon” or something similar, it makes me feel like she doesn’t want to meet up and maybe she’s only talking to me for attention :/
powerfulwordsParticipantDecember 26, 2017 at 3:54 pm #161028
Take it a bit slow maybe. It might only be that she is shy to meet you in person. Give it some time and then see where it goes.December 29, 2017 at 10:52 am #161075
We’ve not long ago had are first few video chats so I doubt she’s a catfish. So I think she’s just very shy, hopefully I’ll be able to meet up with her soon 🙂
acetopwonParticipantDecember 29, 2017 at 8:53 pm #161106
Looks like it!
acetopwonParticipantDecember 29, 2017 at 8:54 pm #161107
You got this, dont be scared
Remay19ParticipantJanuary 1, 2018 at 12:39 pm #161151
She’s probably busy, just wait a bit then ease back into it
teufel21ParticipantJanuary 13, 2018 at 9:11 pm #162395
How long have you been chatting with her?, I hate to be the cynic in this, she may just seeking gratification or just be bored, (heck, she might already be in a relationship.) If this person was truly interested I think she would have found the time to meet up with you.
Even if I am a cynic, I can still be optimistic, she may be invariably busy or stalling (like frantically trying to get into shape before meeting you, ive done this.) You could try the ‘ultimatum/choice’ trick, where you offer two choices like, “hey this week I want to take you out and I only have two available evenings, Monday or Friday night, your pick,” one thats not ideal and one that is, this works in two ways, one: it makes the person compelled to make a choice (that choice being going out with you.) number two: they feel that even though they’re having to make a choice, they feel good about it.
jennabriltzParticipantJanuary 14, 2018 at 12:05 am #162397
Take it slow. It’s not a rush she has probably gotten busy with her life.
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