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BobanParticipantMay 5, 2019 at 2:13 pm #199890
So the thing is that there is one girl in my town,i like her alot but i don’t know how to approach her or get her attention even if we don’t know each other.On top of that we literally have same hobbies and interests like a playing music or same sport.So my question is how i can approach her even if we don’t know each other but i don’t want it to be so aggresive.
dashingscorpioParticipantMay 5, 2019 at 7:11 pm #199910
Saying: “Hello my name is …. I heard you play…etc. How long have you been doing that?” or What’s your favorite…?
Then you let her know you’re also into the same things. If she smiles or asks you questions there is a mutual interest.
There is nothing “magical” about introducing yourself and asking a person questions about them self.
Young guys often act like girls are like aliens from “outer space”.
They’re human beings just like your male friends!
Girls/women are attracted to guys who come across as confident.
So called “nice guys” end up in the “friend zone” because they put girls on a pedestal.
This tends to make them uncomfortable. Their own parents, siblings, and best friends don’t treat them like that.
People want to feel comfortable!
If you focus on her interests/hobbies and what you have in common it should be easy to talk with her.
Having said that if there is no mutual interest don’t expect her to desire you just because you are “nice”.
BobanParticipantMay 6, 2019 at 5:19 am #199918
I have one more question,she have one more grade to pass to start to go in high school so maybe she will meet someone new in high school and fall in love with him is that marker that i have to hurry up and meet her or that’s not a problem
dashingscorpioParticipantMay 7, 2019 at 11:45 am #200027
Reality check time.
1. She is not your “soulmate” and never was going to be the woman you spent the rest of your life with!
2. Just about everyone meets someone in high school!
3. Teenage dating is primarily about having fun, socializing, and gaining new life experiences.
When it comes to love and relationships most of us (fail our way) to success.
Rarely does anyone hit a homerun their first, second, third, or fourth time up at bat.
If this were not the case all of us would be married to our high school sweethearts!
My point is: It’s very rare anyone’s “first love” or crush is their last love. That’s life!
Having said that you can still make the most of it by creating some memories with her if she likes you.
With the Internet, email, social media, and cell phones it’s not hard to stay in contact even if she’s in a different school.
You also can hang out on weekends, go to movies, grab burger and milkshake or do whatever.
Either way you will date other girls.
okkkorniienkoParticipantMay 13, 2019 at 8:40 am #200245
I think first of you have to speak with her.
Cause u don’t know what she thinks about u.
And after a little talk u maybe ynderstand that she is not you type of girl.
Or u gonna fall in love and live a gappy life with your human!
rasalghul23ParticipantMay 13, 2019 at 6:23 pm #200308
The talk that opposites attract is a trash. People with similar interest would easily have a nice conversation every time.
If you’re shy of approaching her directly write a small note complimenting her and ask for a date.
rasalghul23ParticipantMay 13, 2019 at 6:26 pm #200309
To add, don’t copy something from the internet or prom etc. and keep the note casual.
Like, “I always come across you here, and every time I see you I can’t stop admiring your beautiful smile enough. If you would like I wanna date etc”
anonxroseParticipantJune 1, 2019 at 10:12 pm #201502
There’s a lot of ways to go about this. I think, maybe just try to find some common interest and start talking to her? If it doesn’t feel right, she might not be the one, but still, try to stick with it and try to get to know the situation. As with the high school thing, it would definitely be an obstacle if you were to wait until she fell for another guy, so try to shoot your shot before. Good luck! But then again, I don’t have much experience in this arena either.
TOxParticipantJune 3, 2019 at 11:19 am #201575
Work up the courage to confront her and start a conversation
sk123ParticipantJune 5, 2019 at 1:38 am #201633
Coming from a girl in this situation:
Work up the courage to talk to her and ask her about her hobbies.
Even saying hi to her in the halls before approaching her is acceptable too!
And if she doesn’t like you back, it’s okay! It’s high school, not hell. You’ll find someone who you love, till death do you part!
Luca SrzinskiParticipantJuly 2, 2019 at 4:37 pm #203200
Yeah work up the courage to start conversation
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