Need some advice about a clinger


Need some advice about a clinger

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    August 14, 2015 at 6:05 pm #84117
    Need some advice about a clinger

    I recently joined a senior dating site, and a man sent me a message, saying how funny my profile was, but that he didn’t expect me to message him back unless ‘Beauty and the Beast’ was my favorite movie. For starters, I’m not beautiful, and look every day of my age (59). But I’ve been told my heart is too soft for my own good, and it seemed cruel to ignore him, because he’d written a message, instead of those computer-generated things, so I sent him a thank you. Even though I’ve declined his offer to talk on the phone and to meet, he sends me messages all the time, saying that it’s the bright spot of his day to read a message from me. And today he messaged me saying how busy I must be. I think because I’ve been letting more time go by before opening his emails, and just responding briefly and cordially. I have never flirted or led him on whatsoever. He seems like a nice person, and I don’t want to be hurtful, but it’s making me too uncomfortable. Thanks for reading this.