Need Women's Opinion: How often to call/text/go out?

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Need Women's Opinion: How often to call/text/go out?

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    TravisB
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    August 1, 2017 at 9:28 am #143779
    Need Women's Opinion: How often to call/text/go out?

    Howdy,
    I’m from LA. I’ve been talking to this girl about 4 weeks. I’ll be 29 soon, she’s 22. So there’s a little age gap. I’ve taken her out on 2 dates in that time–and our 3rd will be in a few days. That might sound like very little, but we have a common group of friends so there’s been about 3 times which we happen to be at the same gathering/bar during those 4 weeks. The issue for me in this new romantic situation is navigating the fact that we will likely run into each other from time to time. It kind of upsets the balance of things. I’m just not sure how often I should be texting her or calling her or asking her out. She’s always receptive to calls or texts (never been a case where she didn’t answer). But I’m just not sure how often I should be doing things. As a woman, would 3 dates in 4 weeks seem like not enough to you? It’s difficult to decide since we end up at the same party almost once a week. How often she a new person be texting/calling? Am I overthinking?