New to dating what do I do!

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New to dating what do I do!

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    denisehannah89
    denisehannah89
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    July 26, 2018 at 4:20 pm #180303
    New to dating what do I do!

    Hey guys looking for a bit of advice as I am new to the dating scene after being married 9 years then divorced about 1 1/2 years ago. I started seeing someone In May. Everything was good great communication every day and then seen each other for long dates at least 12 hours once a week until he went on vacation for a month last week.
    We spoke once before he when for his flight and a few minutes calls twice or three time since 16th June and He left two weeks ago. I am not sure whetherI should expect to speak to him because we are not serious, but my friends generally think this is horrible. I will not try to reach him as I have and it normally takes him about 24 hours to reply which I don’t mind as I understand he is holiday, but I do not know if that is good to just cut off all communication and see if he messages me when he’s back.

    We have discussed what we are looking for ie; relationship and have confirmed we are not chatting to anyone else however I got a gut feeling that he is

    dashingscorpio
    dashingscorpio
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    July 27, 2018 at 3:20 pm #180386

    1. ” we are not serious…”
    2. “we are not chatting to anyone else however I got a gut feeling that he is.”

    Anytime it’s not “serious” or you’re not in an “exclusive relationship” both people are free to do as they please.
    Naturally if someone is truly “into you” they’re going to make an effort to stay in contact with you.
    The guy is only on vacation. He’s not exactly fighting in a war.

    If you don’t or can’t {trust} someone the relationship is already over!

    In this era of email, texts, Facetime, and social media people have a variety of staying in contact (if) they want to.
    Odds are he’s going to bars, nightclubs, and having a blast meeting other people while on vacation.
    He’s not going to spend his free time worrying about a girl he’s not “serious” about.

    Until there is a commitment or emotional investment made on both sides you should be dating multiple people.
    If you were job hunting you’d send out multiple resumes to multiple companies until you got a job.