Not sure where I stand with a guy


Not sure where I stand with a guy

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    July 14, 2016 at 12:36 pm #105215
    Not sure where I stand with a guy

    So I met a guy online back in January, I don’t usually run to meet anyone from the dating apps so it took me about a month to go and hang out with him. Once we met, he wouldn’t stop texting or calling me. He would run to see me every chance he would get. I would come by his job when I would be free to go get lunch with him. We also went on a weekend trip with my friends and things were great. My friend got into my head one day and started telling me that I should have “the talk” with him. So i did, i asked him where we stand and he told me that he’s not the type of guy who likes to put titles on us. He said that he enjoys my company and loves spending time with me, but he thinks that we should develop a relationship rather than jump into something. At first I was completely against the idea, but then I thought things through and his point of view made sense. After the talk we didn’t really speak much, because of our opposing views.

    July 14, 2016 at 4:20 pm #105218

    I went away on vacation and after I came back, we started talking again. He invited me to go away with him and his friends, we would see each other once a week opposing to almost every day. We don’t text as much anymore, but overtime we are together its like nothing is different. I was intimate with him, before the whole talk we had, but now i laid that to rest, to kind of “develop” something. Is this guy serious about me or is he just stringing me along and i should let it go?

    Parent Asking
    July 15, 2016 at 4:32 am #105303

    Relationships need to develope.

    People are sometimes to hasty.

    After the talk he could be slightly scared that you are going to push to hard.

    Did anything change after you were intemate?

    July 15, 2016 at 8:07 pm #105430

    If titles are important to you talk to him about it.