"Persistent"  – to be or not to be? That is the question!


"Persistent" – to be or not to be? That is the question!

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    February 28, 2015 at 3:10 pm #74409
    "Persistent" – to be or not to be? That is the question!

    I’m a boss & work with a girl I like. 1st I couldn’t talk to her cause we don’t work directly. Started going on break when she did and we started talking, only 10 min spurts. 1 day I asked her out to lunch but she gets a 1/2 hr, not enough time which she reminded me of. Eventually she told me she bartends on Sat nights at a tiny bar. I took as invite to see her outside of work & showed up. Went in & some point asked to go out sometime, she said Yes. I emailed her to go 4 drinks. She said she doesn’t drink much. I backed off again and went back to the bar few wks later, again we hit if off, I asked her 4 her phone # so we could ‘hang out”(no drinks). She said “Yes Definitely” and gave up the #. Again, I txtd her to hang but she said she doesn’t go out or do much. I even made clear that it could be as friends. She said she was just in her “own little world” right now. I know she’ not seeing anyone. Is she totally rejecting me or taking baby steps because we work together?