PLEASE HELP!

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PLEASE HELP!

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  • Hayley Matthews Hayley Matthews
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    anon
    anon
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    March 21, 2020 at 10:55 am #231824
    PLEASE HELP!

    I’ve been dating this guy for nearly three years. He is super close to my family, friends, has great values and is generally such a good person at heart. I love him but I dont know if i like him anymore. I could see myself marrying him one day but I feel like im too young right now. I want to meet other people and be single, and I dont feel the fun and laughter in our relationship anymore. I dont know if i should break up with him or not because Im so scared Ill never find someone as amazing as he is, and our lives are so entangled already (hes super close with my family, we’ve been through very difficult times together like friends passing away etc.). What do i do??

    dashingscorpio
    dashingscorpio
    Participant
    March 25, 2020 at 5:52 pm #232077

    “I want to meet other people and be single…”

    Enough said!

    If he were so “amazing” you wouldn’t be contemplating breaking up!
    Clearly a part of you feels as if you were to marry this guy you would have “settled”

    You also wouldn’t be doing him any favors by marrying him and feeling the way you do.
    People who do this eventually end up cheating on their mate or doing something to force them to breakup.

    Life is a (personal) journey. You can’t live (your life) for “other people”.
    Know yourself, Love yourself, Trust yourself.

    The world may not owe you anything but YOU owe yourself the world!

    justin2020
    justin2020
    Participant
    April 2, 2020 at 2:00 am #232489

    Marry him when you feel its the right time.

    bellanina
    bellanina
    Participant
    May 26, 2020 at 4:55 pm #234349

    perhaps you can discuss with him that you feel bored with life (instead of using the word relationship) and you can talk about how to spice things up. Explore some interests even if its a failure it would have at least been fun trying! also, taking little trips really helps big time, I know the current times isn’t wise to travel. and keep in mind: everyone is bored right now!

    GMale
    GMale
    Participant
    May 27, 2020 at 12:57 am #234358

    What Dashing Scorpion said.