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[ariel8281Participant]

September 14, 2018 at 10:54 am #184275

Please help me as I dont know what to do

I have started texting this online guy for about two weeks. He is always busy and will send me one liner or two and one weekend i didnt hear from him at all. Told me work busy but he thinks of me. Also send me pictures of him in work clothes once every two or three days. He said he wish we can get to know each other more to which i said i wish we can meet. He didnt reply to this. Today he text me few times throughout the day and the last he send me an interview video of a TV show on health benefits of sex and said he is thinking of me. What is he trying to tell me and how should i respond?

[kjones87654321Participant]

January 16, 2019 at 8:39 pm #192778

It doesn’t sound like he not looking for a relationship, maybe just some fun when it’s convenient for him. If you’re looking for a relationship, you may want to look elsewhere and save yourself some heartache. Good luck

[franktParticipant]

January 21, 2019 at 2:48 pm #193074

I suggest letting this guy go (ghost them). Stop all contact. Don’t let yourself get played. He might/could contact you after he hasn’t heard from you for a while. If that happens, keep your answers very short. Play hard to get. If he suggests meeting up, keep your answer short like “cool” or “that works” and that’s it. Don’t make yourself too available. I suggest ghosting and moving on.