Please help with this guy!!

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Please help with this guy!!

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    Mia8xxx
    Mia8xxx
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    February 26, 2020 at 12:19 pm #230519
    Please help with this guy!!

    Recently I met a guy who I felt I had a great connection with and he admitted he really liked me.

    We were living in the same city at the time, so it was easy to see him. Unfortunately, after a few dates, I had to move home for unforeseen reasons and we decided that we could not do a long-distance relationship.

    Six months passed before I contacted him again to stay in touch as I was moving back to the city. I asked if he wanted to meet for a drink, thinking that if he had a girlfriend, he would say no and that it was inappropriate.

    He did respond and said that he was with someone now but would still like to meet me as long as his girlfriend was ok with it, but he did sound enthusiastic.

    What shall I make of his intentions? Does he want to be friends, or does he still like me? We weren’t friends before; we were dating, so him wanting to meet up has confused me! I don’t want to get involved in a love triangle!

    Please can you give me your opinion on how he feels?

    sarajames
    sarajames
    Participant
    February 27, 2020 at 9:46 am #230562

    Well I can tell you one thing for sure that even after he mentioning that he had a girl and says if she is okay then I do not have a prob, is not a right move from the other side, I think he wants to finish the date which was left earlier, either for a night stand or something that sort. please be watchful in this case. Also you can check the link which I can suggest how to figure out a good trust worthy boy friend. for link please mail me to my address email address

    dashingscorpio
    dashingscorpio
    Participant
    February 27, 2020 at 4:52 pm #230600

    “Six months passed before I contacted him again to {stay in touch}…”
    “I asked if he wanted to meet for a drink…”
    “What shall I make of his intentions? Does he want to be friends, or does he still like me?”
    “We weren’t friends before; we were dating, so him wanting to meet up has confused me!”

    Maybe (HE) is the one who is confused!
    You made it sound as if six months passed and you just reached out to “stay in touch”.
    Inviting someone to “meet for a drink” doesn’t exactly imply you want to hookup with him.

    Everything you’ve said implied this was going to be a {platonic meeting between two exes}.
    The fact he sought approval from his current girlfriend to meet with you shows he respects her.
    If he were looking to cheat he would have told her he was “meeting a friend” for drinks.

    Also remember it was YOU who initiated contact and invited HIM to meet you!
    Maybe HE should be wondering what YOUR intentions are?
    If he meets you and doesn’t flirt or talks about his girlfriend you’ll know (he) has moved on.